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Unread postby camtwink96 » 4 February 2020, 00:40

Hi,

Ive recently discover somewhat of a kink I enjoy which is exploring bodies through massages. has any one got any stories to share?
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Re: Kinks

Unread postby Eryx » 4 February 2020, 06:08

I'm good at massages, which is kind of a curse, because I'm very anxious and I get bored with doing it really quickly. At the same time, however, I'm really happy with how I make the other guy feel. My current boyfriend doesn't ask for massages, but I can see how satisfied he gets when I'm doing it on him.

I like them alright, but I don't find it too special. I don't know if it has anything to do with my anxiety, but I normally like to get to the point with things, and that includes sex and foreplay. I blow, I kiss, I fuck, I want to get to the finish line. Massages that last half an hour just for teasing and muscle relaxing and whatever kind of bore me.

I know there's probably something I should improve when it comes to this, but right now I can't really take it for more than 15 minutes without feeling like it's a chore.
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Re: Kinks

Unread postby Frigid » 4 February 2020, 17:42

No but I find them slightly fascinating in how they form in people.

Is massage really a kink?
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Unread postby lightnight » 4 February 2020, 18:16

For me, massaging is not a kink. I think a massage can be a gesture of kindness (if the other person is tired) or simply a bonding activity.

If someone I was with really liked getting massages to the point of it being a kink, then of course I would like to give them a lot of massages (because watching people enjoy their kinks is fun most of the time) but I would also like for them to return the favour.

Because one thing I've noticed while giving massages is that as the other person starts feeling relaxed, my hands and arms start getting tired from all the work, as if I'm absorbing all their tiredness.
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Re: Kinks

Unread postby Eryx » 4 February 2020, 18:43

Lol, that's exactly how I feel!
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Re: Kinks

Unread postby Revontulet » 4 February 2020, 23:04

Definitely not a kink.

Traditional massage techniques are designed in order to explore the body and reconnect with our inner self. If someone special is giving us a massage, it creates energy and special attention from one part of the body to another, but also from our body to another person.

Because this can represent a bounding process, massage can be described as an act of intimacy, and there is nothing kinky about it.
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Re: Kinks

Unread postby Magic J » 4 February 2020, 23:20

Revontulet wrote:Because this can represent a bounding process, massage can be described as an act of intimacy, and there is nothing kinky about it.

How romantic! But yeah, doesn't seem to fit the description of a "kink". Lovely, but not kinky.

Now, if you'd said that you could only get off by being ridden around like a horse, with full riding apparatus, and the rider vigorously hitting you with a whip, all the while shouting abuse at you with regards to the inadequate size of your genitals, well, that'd be a kink.

Not mine, of course. Just... an example. Off the top of my head.
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Re: Kinks

Unread postby mxguy01 » 5 February 2020, 14:43

Magic J wrote:
Revontulet wrote:Because this can represent a bounding process, massage can be described as an act of intimacy, and there is nothing kinky about it.

How romantic! But yeah, doesn't seem to fit the description of a "kink". Lovely, but not kinky.

Now, if you'd said that you could only get off by being ridden around like a horse, with full riding apparatus, and the rider vigorously hitting you with a whip, all the while shouting abuse at you with regards to the inadequate size of your genitals, well, that'd be a kink.

Not mine, of course. Just... an example. Off the top of my head.


That kinda sounds like when I'm racing on my dirt bike except no whip. What can I say.
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