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Looking for a gay 'mother' figure to talk too

Unread postby verkerk.k » 12 February 2021, 05:31

Hi i'm a high school student who's struggling with their sexuality and depression. I'm kinda new to this whole thing and am rather shy when it comes to talking about sex and stuff when it relates to me(and a guy). I feel like something is wrong with me at times, i hate kissing men but i like to look at them. I'm told by the men that it's weird but idk i can't get myslef to kiss them or even enjoy the kiss. It feels like 'kissing the homies goodnight'. Now i've said all this but have never been kissed or done anything romantic/sexual with a girl. I am attracted to women but i'm worried ii'' feel the same way abt them as i do with men.
i'm worried that my past trauma has done this to me and will make me like no one.
i think i hate myself but hay ho. Anyway thats my story-ish, does anyone wish to help me out ?
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Re: Looking for a gay 'mother' figure to talk too

Unread postby Eryx » 12 February 2021, 12:54

It's normal for things to feel weird or out of place when we're teenagers, and especially when we're gay. I struggled with it as well. I was grossed out by gay porn with penetration and couldn't stand the fact that I was going to be with men my whole life. But that wore off as I learned to accept myself more and more.

It sounds like you're bisexual, right? Attracted to men and women?

The important thing is just to understand that there's no rush, no pressure at all for one thing or another. You can go through High School experimenting or not. Things get a lot clearer and more fun after High School. Focus on your friends and studies, that's much better than figuring out if you really want to get hot and bothered with other guys or not.
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