Married and discretly thirsty

Share stories, ask questions, get answers.

Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby HardCuriousCock » 18 March 2021, 10:47

:D I am a discretly bi married guy 56 from the Midwest. It is such a struggle containing my sexual desires. I love women, and not attracted to men. Although, a lot of days I just want to Suck Cock and Swallow delicious CUM. Can you relate to this ? Please comment, or I would Love to chat if you have similar desires. Thanks
HardCuriousCock
 
Posts: 2
Joined: 18 March 2021, 08:15
Country: United States (us)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby Brenden » 18 March 2021, 14:19

Cheaters are not tolerated here. You are a terrible person and give gay and bi guys a bad reputation. Fuck off.
Disclaimer: All views expressed in my posts are my own and do not reflect the views of this forum except when otherwise stated or this signature is not present.

ImageImageImageImage
User avatar
Brenden
Administrator
 
Posts: 8833
+1s received: 3340
Joined: 20 December 2012, 20:12
Location: Lanarkshire, Scotland
Country: United Kingdom (gb)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby Jzone » 19 March 2021, 00:50

I have a little more compassion than Brenden in this matter. However, there really is no excuse for cheating on a committed relationship. If you are not fulfilled there it is time to make a change. Do not go behind your partner's back to suck cock.

I am also 56 and in a relationship with a woman. She knows I am also attracted to men and have had same-sex relationships. We deal with it openly. I live in a tolerant west coast state and can only imagine what it is like living in the more homophobic midwest. To be honest, I cannot relate to wanting to suck cock without being attracted to men.

You have some soul-searching to do to sort out your sexual desires and frustrations. Good luck with that.
Just an everyday boy — doing everyday things
User avatar
Jzone
 
Posts: 1319
+1s received: 1508
Joined: 21 October 2017, 17:58
Location: USA, Washington State
Country: United States (us)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby Brenden » 19 March 2021, 08:49

He could be transmitting any number of STIs to his wife, like cancer-causing HPV. An open relationship in which parties are informed is not comparable to cheating at all.
Disclaimer: All views expressed in my posts are my own and do not reflect the views of this forum except when otherwise stated or this signature is not present.

ImageImageImageImage
User avatar
Brenden
Administrator
 
Posts: 8833
+1s received: 3340
Joined: 20 December 2012, 20:12
Location: Lanarkshire, Scotland
Country: United Kingdom (gb)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby Raynethemagi » 19 March 2021, 09:30

I dunno if I would make quick judgements. Lemme ask you, does your wife know about these things? Have you talked about these things with your wife? I'm just curious, cause I feel like we're not getting the full picture here. I know the title says "Married and discretely thirsty" but that could mean that he's told his wife, but wants to keep this desire on the downlow with his friends and such.
Here's an example of the Universe trying to tell you that you need healing in an area of your life:

Someone who struggles with showing emotion. This person, in their lifetime, will constantly struggle with this, and that is because, they choose to ignore or disregard the fact that they have trouble showing emotion. Most people will ignore this issue, and will continue to fracture themselves. And this goes with pretty much any problem that happens in your life that is recurring. Don't pass up an opportunity to make you "whole" again.
Raynethemagi
 
Posts: 199
+1s received: 62
Joined: 27 February 2021, 13:37
Country: United States (us)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby MJM » 20 March 2021, 15:18

I can relate. I've been married to women and had that longing but I didn't act on it for some of the reasons others have noted. It's your Midwestern environment. I live in that general vicinity and being gay is not cool for the most part. Stop trying to force yourself to love women. I had to get married 4 times before I faced that reality.
I know you are but what am I ?
MJM
 
Posts: 25
+1s received: 6
Joined: 20 October 2020, 17:59
Location: Montana USA
Country: United States (us)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby gaylovenlust » 29 April 2021, 22:30

As long as you don't act upon your desires and cheat on your wife, it is not cheating. Please talk to your wife. Maybe ask her opinion first about bisexual. If she is fine with it, then you can reveal your desires. If not, then say someone in your office is openly Bi.
gaylovenlust
 
Posts: 2
+1s received: 1
Joined: 29 April 2021, 22:19
Country: India (in)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby Eryx » 2 May 2021, 13:07

I don't think this forum has the kind o demographic that would get all hot and bothered with the fact that you're married and admittedly with mental health issues around your bisexuality.
ImageImageImage Image Image Image ImageImage

You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant.
— Harlan Ellison
User avatar
Eryx
 
Posts: 2953
+1s received: 1908
Joined: 20 December 2012, 21:48
Location: Belo Horizonte, MG
Country: Brazil (br)

Re: Married and discretly thirsty

Unread postby Ballparkdogg » 9 June 2021, 06:08

ok ok.. enough the judgements. I usually don't tell the girls I am dating that I like to fuck men too. I have been with a few married men and most have been bottoms.
Ballparkdogg
 
Posts: 30
+1s received: 5
Joined: 9 June 2021, 04:31
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Country: United States (us)


Recently active
Users browsing this forum: CaffeineMan, CommonCrawl [Bot], Ghost578, Lucid07, Mohsenbokon and 267 guests