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Unread postby Eos » 2 December 2019, 10:39

Hi !

I would like to ask some questions on various subjects.

- Never had sex, but I have a concern about bottoming. Once the bottom ejaculate, if the top didn't, will he start feeling pain afterwards ?

- What is the best way to avoid STDs ? If I ever find my partner, the day will come where we might stop using condoms.

- I'm using a lot of meeting apps, but I often don't have any response from the people I wish to talk to. I don't know if it is because of me. I simply ask if they want to make acquaintance. My profile is complete with many informations (but not too much), 2 pics. It will be a year since a use them, I wonder if shouldn't do a reset ?


Thanks all for your answers !
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Re: Miscellaneous questions

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 2 December 2019, 12:14

As to the STD's part, I guess the second best way would be screenings on a regular base, and where it is possible, get PrEP or PEP meds, as well as keeping a thorough hygiene should prevent the highest risks. Be aware that HIV-PrEP does not protect against other STD's than HIV, so you have to get other prevention meds against other types of STD's.

The best way to avoid STD's probably would be to never ever have sex or any kind of contact to people and spots used by people that may attract ST germs, or, spend life in an astronaut suit. :lol:
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Re: Miscellaneous questions

Unread postby René » 2 December 2019, 13:55

Eos wrote:- Never had sex, but I have a concern about bottoming. Once the bottom ejaculate, if the top didn't, will he start feeling pain afterwards ?

It will get a lot more intense, possibly to the point of pain...which can be hot if you're into some BDSM stuff, and some guys make this happen on purpose because they get off on it. :P (Both tops and bottoms — they will make sure the bottom cums either early on or before starting to have sex at all.) Another thing that can be hot is not allowing the bottom to touch himself at all, and making it all about the top. :D

Eos wrote:- What is the best way to avoid STDs ? If I ever find my partner, the day will come where we might stop using condoms.

Mutual lifelong monogamy. I understand most people find this infeasible, but it's what Brenden and I did so there's zero risk of STDs and we've never had a need to practise safer-sex measures since we're safe anyway. :keke:

Though even then, it can't hurt to get tested, since there's also stuff you can pick up from your mom or from improperly cleaned medical/dental equipment etc.
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Re: Miscellaneous questions

Unread postby Eryx » 2 December 2019, 15:40

After you're in a relationship, wait for the 90-day immunity window and get tested together. From then on do it every six months to a year because you never know if the other person is being faithful, unfortunately. That will keep you away from STDs unless you get very unlucky. It's never guaranteed anyway.

I'm a bottom and after I cum, it's a little harder to keep fucking because you get very sensitive everywhere, including the prostate area. But it's possible to hold on for a while, and if you can really keep at it, you get horny again. I usually stop having penetrative sex and help the top cum with a handjob or a blowjob, and lots of kissing. :)
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Re: Miscellaneous questions

Unread postby Eos » 2 December 2019, 21:47

Thank you all for your answers !

Eryx, do the top have a problem with you finishing them ? I don't know but I guess some would rather end it while doing anal than in some other method ? Or he understands ?
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