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Unread postby Peterpan » 12 July 2021, 11:07

Hi guys

I'm hoping for an experienced or knowledgeable guy to help me figure this out. I'm in a vers relationship with a guy who's preference is to bottom. My preference is to be the top, so it's perfect. We're both vers so at some point I'm sure he'll want to top me. The problem is he has a massive cock, the girth is a whole handful. I've never bottomed for such a big cock before and I'm concerned it could hurt or damage my anus. I'm quite tight and it can be sore when regular guys top me. I am aware of stretching techniques and using lots of lube and so on. I'm still not really to keen to bottom for him due to his size. I really care a lot about him though and this causes me some upset. He's 9 years younger than me. I'm 35 and he's 26. Can anyone help?
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Re: My bfs massive cock

Unread postby glückspilz » 12 July 2021, 19:05

I think it’s important that you talk to your partner and tell him about your fears. I’m sure he had these difficulties as a top before. Maybe he has ideas how to handle the situation.

It would be important for me to create a trusting atmosphere together, so both can act safely together.
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Re: My bfs massive cock

Unread postby pozboro » 12 July 2021, 21:00

Peterpan wrote:Can anyone help?


What? You mean by taking your 'over-sized' bf off your hands? Surely some us would be willing to help a guy out, right men? ;)

And yeah, joking aside, have you talked with him about it? I saw an older dude with the exact same 'problem' when I was just getting started. He totally got it and never forced anything on me - I'd probably only been penetrated once at that point and was convinced I didn't like it. Anyway, we did other things like oral and mutual masturbation.

But yeah, ultimately it's about taking it slow and easy, with plenty of lube. The hardest part is relaxing into (onto) it. Any time we're fearful of the act or a partner's endowment, it just doesn't help. Wanting to do, and hopefully an experienced partner can make it happen, but don't get discouraged if it doesn't work for the first few tries. Trust me, I remember it can be daunting.

If it's possible, you might consider buying a set of butt plugs: they're usually sold in small, medium, and large though a time will come when you might call them tiny, okay, and about right before moving on to a larger size - that is, if you find bottoming enjoyable.

Of course the other option is to use a hand - yours at first, then his. One finger, two fingers, three ... surely you get the concept. Trying this or the plugs on your own, when there's no outside pressure might be a good choice. I have found that works better for me, but some might find an older top's experience helpful and reassuring. (That's ultimately what got me over my anal hangups, but that's another story, for another thread.)

Enjoy! you lucky bastard, you! LOL

And yes, there are two things I hate: size queens and little dicks!
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