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My ex proposed masturbate me

Unread postby Balsatian » 11 March 2019, 06:33

I've been on a long distance relationship for 9 months. Sex between us is good but we use to meet every 10 days normally. I was discussing this with my ex boyfriend and quite subtly he proposed to masturbate together to release tension. My ex is quite into oral so I think if I accept he'd try to go oral on me... what do you think about it? Just thinking about it means my relationship is on crisis? Would masturbate with my ex mean I'm cheating with my boyfriend? And would letting my ex going oral on me mean I'm having sex with him? I have a lot of doubts..., thank you for your inputs!
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Re: My ex proposed masturbate me

Unread postby Eryx » 11 March 2019, 16:15

I don't think your relationship is necessarily on a crisis, just that you're not getting as much sexual attention as your body is craving. I wouldn't do anything sexual like that with an ex-boyfriend though, as it's very likely to escalate (which is probably what he wants, anyway, since he already knows your body). We don't really think straight when we're horny and that's where the danger lies.

If you feel like you can't release enough of that tension with masturbation alone, you should probably talk to your boyfriend about it rather than initiating sexual contact with your ex.
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