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Need help figuring if I’m bi.

Unread postby Quamz » 22 November 2021, 07:31

Ok so basically I’m 27 male and I mostly been with guys sexually but lately I’ve been curious about being with women. Long story short I started seeing a bunch of escorts so that it would be NSA. I had some fun times I didn’t like throw up or anything. It’s just it feels so weird that I waited until 27 to do it.
I mean I could have got laid w/o paying lots of times but it’s just I was scared of getting too close to women at the time I guess. Mind you I do lean gay and but sometimes girls are kinda sexy
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Re: Need help figuring if I’m bi.

Unread postby pozzie » 22 November 2021, 08:28

Welcome to the forum!

Yeah, sorta seems like you're some kind of bi - that's cool - but maybe you should try getting to know women now who aren't being paid to make you feel okay (or good). Not to dis sex workers or anything, but it's different, or so I'm told and have read. I get the part about not wanting NSA for the initial experimentation, but do you think you can actually approach women for real, like on a real date or something?

Who knows, if you give yourself half a chance, you might really find yourself attracted to individuals of either gender though this could be anything from some hot sex to happily-ever-after. That's not an entirely bad thing though you might have to prepare yourself for some people - on both sides - just not getting it. That's okay, as long as you're true to yourself and you find and spread love and happiness along the way.

Good luck!
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Re: Need help figuring if I’m bi.

Unread postby Quamz » 22 November 2021, 15:30

Thanks for your help Pozzie. I do agree I should ditch the escorts as it’s an expensive experience that gives me a fleeting sense of pleasure and false happiness because it’s not really a connection going on.
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