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Unread postby Gingershyandhard » 13 October 2020, 15:27

I’m 23 years old and am in a straight relationship of 4 years, I’ve loved this girl more than anything in the world. However, I fantasise constantly about having sexual meetings with men, especially older men. I’ve been with one man before I got in to this relationship but we only had oral sex and I loved it. I’m confused about what to do, I feel as if I’m straight as I only really crave sex with men when I’m horny and therefore do not want to break up with my girlfriend as I love her a lot but I constantly fantasise about being a bottom to a sexy older man. Before anyone says yes I’ve had my girlfriend play with my arse hole but it never quite hit the spot. What advice would everyone give?
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Re: Nervous

Unread postby Eryx » 13 October 2020, 23:05

There are some things I only enjoy through porn, stuff that I'd never do with my boyfriend and that I'm not willing to give him up for. Some of them are just fantasies that I would never act on, even if I was single.

I think it's fine to have those fantasies, and a lot of people have them, but you have to be sure you can just have them in that realm and be satisfied with your partner. If you feel like something fundamental is missing that you need to have to be happy and fulfilled, then maybe you need to deal with this either by understanding that the relationship isn't enough or trying to accommodate your desires while in it. Maybe your girlfriend would be willing to have other guys in the equation for some fun in bed? Are you sure you wouldn't fall for another guy while with her?

Ask yourself what matters most and make peace with your decision.
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