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New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby tjules329 » 3 April 2022, 20:36

Hey all, I am new to talking to anyone about this so please be gentle. I do not have a ton of experience being with men or bottoming, I am tossing around the idea of looking for a partner, but for the moment I am comfortable with my toys.

I have a average size 6.5 7" dildo that I like to use.

This last time I was playing I got a little over zealous, and it was very pleasurable and exciting while I was toying.

However afterwards I felt very open, and sore inside and my whole body was tingling? legs shaking. Is this normal for a bottom session or was it due to the veracity of my session?

Any advice? appreciated

Also do you think there is a point where playing with a toy means you are able to handle the real thing?


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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby Marmaduke » 3 April 2022, 21:05

“I felt very open and sore inside…was it due to the veracity of my session?”

Yes it was.
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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby René » 3 April 2022, 21:09

The feelings you describe (especially tingling all over) definitely remind me of my first few times, so yeah, sounds normal to me. :)
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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby tjules329 » 3 April 2022, 21:23

René wrote:The feelings you describe (especially tingling all over) definitely remind me of my first few times, so yeah, sounds normal to me. :)



The thing is, I identify as straight, but love to toy myself, and the next day I had sex with my girl and while it usually takes me time to climax, I came very quickly, anyone else experienced that?
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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby jaredjoy90 » 7 April 2022, 17:31

How about using a smaller dildo? Its slightly easier on the body. As well it gives you more of an appreciation for when you do the real thing...

Keep in mind: when you use a dildo you are in complete control. If you bottom, your partner will likely need some control and he (not purposely) might move in ways that aren't entirely comfortable for you to help him enjoy it.
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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby blondambition » 28 April 2022, 14:27

Sounds like you just got it good. When my guy gets me really horny my body tingles and my legs shake a little. He just takes me in the bedroom and takes care of that. We always go at it hard and I always feel relaxed and stress free afterwards.
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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby Retirednav123 » 20 May 2022, 16:22

trying it when younger it important to go slow and use some lube and the right position to talk to partner as he's going in out and cummings and letting him hold it in and going soft and slipping out and chatting about it with you after and getting youre cock hard for him will make you feel great about it and want to do it again
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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby Bluefish » 21 May 2022, 21:21

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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postby Ebrugul » 21 May 2022, 21:41

"I felt very open, and sore inside and my whole body was tingling?"

This is absolutely normal. Because you achieved an enormos pleasure. But after this, you relaized a pain.

You can be careful and not to go so deeply.
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