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Unread postby richardjohnstone0683 » 23 January 2020, 18:52

So I have posted on here before about post-anal sex issues... now for a question about oral sex. I am a total bottom, in the 6 months I have been dating my boyfriend, he hasn't so much as touched my penis, but he has watched me jerk off onto my stomach and used his fingers to scoop my cum up and make me lick it off his fingers..

My issue is: we kiss lots before I go down on him, but after I started and he cums in my mouth, he won't kiss me for the next like 12 hours, even after I've swallowed and brushed my teeth and everything. Is that a douchebag thing for him to do?
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Re: No kissing after swallowing his cum?

Unread postby rogonandi » 23 January 2020, 18:54

Yeah, kinda.
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Unread postby Brenden » 23 January 2020, 18:55

Sounds like he's insecure about his sexuality.
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Unread postby René » 23 January 2020, 18:55

richardjohnstone0683 wrote:I am a total bottom, in the 6 months I have been dating my boyfriend, he hasn't so much as touched my penis, but he has watched me jerk off onto my stomach and used his fingers to scoop my cum up and make me lick it off his fingers..

That's hot.

richardjohnstone0683 wrote:My issue is: we kiss lots before I go down on him, but after I started and he cums in my mouth, he won't kiss me for the next like 12 hours, even after I've swallowed and brushed my teeth and everything. Is that a douchebag thing for him to do?

That's really strange. Have you talked about this with him? I would consider it strange even before you brushed your teeth, but it seems especially strange after.
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Unread postby Frigid » 23 January 2020, 18:55

novel idea: ask him
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Unread postby Eryx » 23 January 2020, 20:04

If he doesn't like the taste, that's just because he doesn't like the taste, and it's fine, but he's a bit too sensitive if it takes him 12 hours to be okay with kissing again.

If he doesn't do it because it's a man's cum, then that's the internalized homophobia people talk so much about. I agree you should talk to him and voice your complaints.
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Unread postby Safigooner » 24 January 2020, 12:32

I wouldn't define it as a terrible thing , everyone has different "taste".
I am a top and I swallow my boyfriend's cum most of the time, he on the other hand barely licks my precum.
He said he doesn't like the taste of cum, so that's fine.
Best thing to do is address this issue with him, see what he really thinks about it.
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Unread postby Brenden » 24 January 2020, 21:10

Safigooner wrote:I am a top and I swallow my boyfriend's cum most of the time, he on the other hand barely licks my precum.
He said he doesn't like the taste of cum, so that's fine.

Precum is so delicious though! :drool: It's not like cum at all.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 24 January 2020, 21:33

richardjohnstone0683 wrote:So I have posted on here before about post-anal sex issues... now for a question about oral sex. I am a total bottom, in the 6 months I have been dating my boyfriend, he hasn't so much as touched my penis, but he has watched me jerk off onto my stomach and used his fingers to scoop my cum up and make me lick it off his fingers..

My issue is: we kiss lots before I go down on him, but after I started and he cums in my mouth, he won't kiss me for the next like 12 hours, even after I've swallowed and brushed my teeth and everything. Is that a douchebag thing for him to do?


Well is it really just the kissing after 12 hours bothering you or is it the fact he he doesn't play with it at all?

Likes others suggested, talk to him. But I'll also warn you that many "total tops" don't kiss and are not oral at all so he's likely not to see anything wrong with it.

Specifically to your question of is he a douchebag, I think that depends upon his reasoning and the only way to know is to ask.
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Unread postby richardjohnstone0683 » 24 January 2020, 22:03

We do kiss all the time besides for this though. And after he fucks me in the ass he will kiss me after sex, its only after oral and I have swallowed his cum that he won't kiss me. Our relationship in general is great, he is a great guy, so I'm not going to blow this out of proportion, its just nice to get the attention.

That being said, if I was given the option of not swallowing his cum and him kissing me versus getting to swallow but no kissing, I will take swallowing.
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Unread postby Eryx » 27 January 2020, 01:58

Well, in that case, you've got your answer.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 27 January 2020, 14:33

The answer is: He has a little hangup that really doesn't affect the relationship. Get enough kissing in that you'll be happy doing without for 12 hours, then go down on him like never before. That's's what I'd do.
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Unread postby blondbear1 » 29 September 2020, 19:58

I was always disgusted by swallowing cum when I was younger, but once I fell in love, I just loved to swallow cum from my loved one, like, squeezing his penis to get the last drop, I must feel safe and involved enough to want it. If is just casual sex (which I don't fancy much anymore) not at all, I just can't. That's my situation. I had an affair that, he loved to receive BJs and had no problem to kiss me after cumming in my mouth, he started at some point bottoming, and when we started hooking up, he was married (woman) and considers himself straight - and even then, he would never suck my dick, never even tried, he avoided to touch it, mostly, until the day he guided it inside him with his hand. IDK, maybe he's just insecure about his masculinity ?
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