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Unread postby Twilight66 » 26 February 2021, 05:04

This may sound weird (maybe not) but I do not find myself attracted to men when I'm out and about, or at work, or anytime really. I do fantasize about young smooth guys (18 to 26) and enjoy looking at nude pictures of that type of guy. And I have had a few gay experiences with male "escorts" and for the most part really enjoyed them, especially the guilty pleasure of doing something that feels "naughty". But I don't fixate on it, would never even contemplate or be interested in an emotional relationship with a guy, and am only attracted to women in real life. Also, strangely, I don't enjoy viewing gay porn between two or more guys; I prefer picture galleries of guys in my age of attraction.
Anyone else inclined this way? Or could anybody give me some feedback in regards to why I might act in this way? Thanks.
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Unread postby mysterygoldfish » 18 March 2021, 19:48

Personally, I do not share your situation am only interested in other men. It may be good to take my words with a sizable grain of salt as I am very far from an expert but from my understanding sexuality is a vast spectrum. People can still be bisexual but vastly prefer one gender over another. I think that maybe you are just some verity of bisexual who mainly is attracted to women and only wishes to have sexual relations with men and only be interested in one specific type of guy.
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Unread postby Ballparkdogg » 9 June 2021, 06:25

i like to have relationships with women, but only interested in men for sex. I am bisexual. my advice enjoy it and have fun
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Unread postby Fallenhumansexlover » 19 July 2021, 04:26

I can relate completely. I had gay sex for several years with my step relative. Sex play as kids turned into a habit of getting each off when we saw each other. Totally buds, except we had sex. I don’t live a gay lifestyle, but do like gay porn.
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Unread postby CaffeineMan » 19 July 2021, 20:24

I think I’m in the same place. While obviously, there’s a level of attraction involved, I don’t find myself looking at a specific guy or even body of a guy and getting turned on.

For me it’s very much mood. Where I look at certain women and get horny. With men, it’s literally me being in the mood for cock - as such the men I’ve had sex with all look different- selfish as it may sound, with a guy, I’m looking to get off only.
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Unread postby curious51973 » 29 July 2021, 23:28

I love sucking cock but I am not attracted to men. But I do watch a lot of gay porn. What's up with that?
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Unread postby McTaggartfan » 30 July 2021, 07:08

This reminds me of my time with the apes!



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Unread postby Munti » 2 August 2021, 13:26

Ballparkdogg wrote:i like to have relationships with women, but only interested in men for sex. I am bisexual. my advice enjoy it and have fun

Can I ask you how you can maintain relationships with women if you're not sexually attracted to them? Is it difficult? To they know about that? Are you ok with being in a relationship when you don't like having sex with your partner?

I'm just asking because I might be in the same situation.
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Unread postby GentleFreak » 15 December 2021, 17:21

I'm not attracted to men either. It's more of a sexual want at this point for me. So it's not weird.
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Unread postby LeeLong73 » 22 December 2021, 17:50

Been there done that, sort of.
It's a difficult situation to be in. At this point in my life, I've gone a few years with only having sex with men. In fact, I've found that sexua. I really can't have sex with women. Nothing about sex with them turns me on. Whether it's vaginal (turns me off totally) oral or anal. Sex with a man though. Total turn on. In fact, getting turned on thinking about it.
I USED to consider myself bisexual. But really it was just a justification. Not saying everyone. Just ME. I no longer date women. I have friendships with them, but that's it. Not only do I not want to have sex with a woman, the idea of it is a total turn off.
I foudover the years that the more men have sex with, the more I enjoy romance, kissing, body contact, making out. Etc.
I had to come to the Conclusion that I am 100% gay. If I was going to be in a relationship with a woman, it wasn't fair to either of us. I had no desire for her whatsoever.
But that's just me.

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Ballparkdogg wrote:i like to have relationships with women, but only interested in men for sex. I am bisexual. my advice enjoy it and have fun

Can I ask you how you can maintain relationships with women if you're not sexually attracted to them? Is it difficult? To they know about that? Are you ok with being in a relationship when you don't like having sex with your partner?

I'm just asking because I might be in the same situation.
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Unread postby Cymro93 » 29 December 2021, 22:04

I have the same feeling really. When I'm not in the mood and just going about my daily life, I basically consider myself straight. Then, obviously, the mood strikes! 😂
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