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Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby builtgates » 8 November 2018, 22:31

Hello, people, I have a very, I dunno, delicate problem. When I masturbate with my ass, I feel really aroused, I even leak precum but after a while sensations stop being sexual and become, like, more physiological and if I continue to stimulate myself, it ends up like.. umm, it ends up with contractions of my muscles leading to.. bowel emptying (alongside with bladder) :cry: :cry:
As far as I know, this is not how proper anal orgasm should feel...
And it happens even if I, umm, clean my ass beforehand..
And I want to really feel that proper anal orgasm but i don't know what to do about it and it really gets on my nerves..
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby ShoesOnPantsDown » 9 November 2018, 17:53

Have you eaten before you tried anal
How long did you eat
To have a clean bum you can't have eaten for a while pop takes time to form sometimes after you clean you have clean again to make sure their is surprises left I would say skip a meal before trying anal so make sure their isn't a lot in you

But that is my body I know how it work it differs form people sometimes you have to skip 2 meals or not eat at all before trying it

As for the pee problem I don't know about that maybe check with a doctor their is no shame is being considered with your sexual wellness

I hope this help a bit
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby builtgates » 9 November 2018, 23:19

ShoesOnPantsDown wrote:Have you eaten before you tried anal
How long did you eat
To have a clean bum you can't have eaten for a while pop takes time to form sometimes after you clean you have clean again to make sure their is surprises left I would say skip a meal before trying anal so make sure their isn't a lot in you

But that is my body I know how it work it differs form people sometimes you have to skip 2 meals or not eat at all before trying it

As for the pee problem I don't know about that maybe check with a doctor their is no shame is being considered with your sexual wellness

I hope this help a bit
Much love


I didn't consider skipping a meal but it sounds like a really reasonable idea! Thanks for your help!
About pee problem - I've seen something similar in some porn, so I don't think that it's 'a problem', I mean, it's not a medical problem so to speak
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby MD80 » 16 August 2019, 19:33

Anytime I plan on having anal sex with a man or myself I try to eat just light soup and juices for a day. A quick enema an hour before and you're ready to go and should be able to be in your butt for a long period of time without any poop.
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby Sullivan » 16 August 2019, 20:12

MD80 wrote:Anytime I plan on having anal sex with a man or myself I try to eat just light soup and juices for a day. A quick enema an hour before and you're ready to go and should be able to be in your butt for a long period of time without any poop.

You're just reviving all the best threads. Maybe try to find one about water sports next.
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 16 August 2019, 20:39

Answer the damn thread. What’s been your secret to mind blowing anal orgasms?
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby Sullivan » 16 August 2019, 23:25

Have you tried granita, wherever in Italy you are? It's like this weird, sludgy lovechild of sorbet and gelato, but I highly recommend.
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 17 August 2019, 04:20

Sullivan wrote:Have you tried granita, wherever in Italy you are? It's like this weird, sludgy lovechild of sorbet and gelato, but I highly recommend.

Oh, really? It looked like Kool-Aid slushy and just figured it was for tourists. I guess I’ll give it a try.

So is granita something you stuff in your butt to achieve the best orgasm? Are the jagged cold particles hitting your prostate the secret?
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby Sullivan » 17 August 2019, 10:43

It's really a Sicilian thing, so if you're in the north, as I assume you are, I don't know what the quality will be.

They tend to serve it with brioche, which to me is just like wtf but also bread is life
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby Bajkonur78 » 25 August 2019, 12:23

I have a problem too, is it normal, that I do not feel much pleasure from ass play until I make my cock hard? Do I something wrong? I have seen the guy with soft/or none errections having fun and orgasms and I wonder what is normal or if there is some trick I do not see :-)
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby whoiswlliamonyebor » 5 September 2019, 00:50

Sounds like you could be pushing a little overmuch against the rectal walls. Be more gentle, maybe?

Ive cum all over myself without touching genitilia, just banging my ass against the ground, as if there was something going in. Impact, I have found, can be just as effective as direct prostate stimulation if its at the right time.
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby martygraham » 6 October 2019, 02:44

hello sorry to hear about that but I think you can avoid the negative effects of such an amazing orgasm with the right process and toys. here's a great resource I recommend for you to read https://sexualalpha.com/best-prostate-massager/ in which they gave useful info about how to properly do it, experiences from others, and recommended toys that work best. hope that helps and stay safe! ;)
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby kenzie_matt » 7 October 2019, 11:51

martygraham wrote:hello sorry to hear about that but I think you can avoid the negative effects of such an amazing orgasm with the right process and toys. here's a great resource I recommend for you to read https://sexualalpha.com/best-prostate-massager/ in which they gave useful info about how to properly do it, experiences from others, and recommended toys that work best. hope that helps and stay safe! ;)

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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby Jurgan432 » 12 October 2019, 17:42

And I'm afraid to experiment with such things .. I don’t know, maybe I will try this, but not now
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby abii » 5 November 2019, 23:52

Hello, I might have a similar problem. When I'm bottoming I often need to jerk off as fast as possible, so I can have an orgasm. When I'm not playing with my cock, the pleasure goes away after a while. I have never had an anal orgasm during sex but I wish I had one. So I started practicing with toys. When I use dildo I have similar thing: It is super arousing at the beginning, but later on the pleasure fades away. Last time I decided to be very patient so I play a while with dildo. I noticed that the most pleasure I get when I hold my breath, I'm almost near the orgasm. After another while I felt that my anus got more tighten, It took more effort to insert the dildo, but the pleasure was better and better... Finally I had an orgasm, but... It felt like I'm pooping (actually It get dirty despite the fact that I cleaned myself). I wish I could feel orgasm with partner, but I'm afraid that I'll poop him. So the question is: is that how the orgasm should look like? What you do with your anus to feel the sensations? Do you stretch your muscles or relax them?
I also had several times prostate orgasm from masturbation. This time, instead of pooping I peed myself - every time (to be fair, the pee didn't smell like pee, It was smelless). I also would like to have a prostate orgasm with partner, but I wouldn't like to pee everywhere ;) So, please let me know how you do that?
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Re: Problem with anal orgasm

Unread postby Eryx » 6 November 2019, 04:39

I think you need to see an urologist. There's a lot to talk about there and I don't feel any of us are equipped to counsel you.
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