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Unread postby str8bttm » 11 January 2021, 10:27

I was reading an article on how to be a better bottom and it said to push out during insertion so that it is easier for the top?

It seems a bit counterintuitive to the process, no? I feel as of you are relaxed and lubed up it should go right in.

I've had bigger tops and as long as they were in and let my hole stretch and relax it was okay after that.
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Unread postby jamessemaj » 11 January 2021, 15:46

does seem counterintuitive but is it more a pleasure based comment?
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Unread postby PanicP » 13 January 2021, 00:19

Until very recently I’ve only been able to do this. There is clearly a lot happening and it if difficult to focus on pushing, but when you do finally master it. Wow.
You’re completely letting your body be taken over. It’s an incredible feeling, you can go deeper for longer.
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Unread postby str8bttm » 14 January 2021, 13:51

PanicP wrote:Until very recently I’ve only been able to do this. There is clearly a lot happening and it if difficult to focus on pushing, but when you do finally master it. Wow.
You’re completely letting your body be taken over. It’s an incredible feeling, you can go deeper for longer.



This will probably take me some getting used to. Usually I just wait to get loose. Def will have to practice with my toys.
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Unread postby PanicP » 15 January 2021, 13:44

str8bttm wrote:This will probably take me some getting used to. Usually I just wait to get loose. Def will have to practice with my toys.


I’m sure with practice you will get there. It took me longer finally get to that stage because I have no toys to practice with, but, I’m sure you will get there. I wish I could give you more advice but it’s just one of those ones where you will know when it happens.
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Unread postby Gradytt » 17 January 2021, 10:21

I’m sure with practice you will get there. It took me longer finally get to that stage because I have no toys to practice with, but, I’m sure you will get there. I wish I could give you more advice but it’s just one of those ones where you will know when it happens.



Thanks I appreciate it. I really want to be a power bottom.
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Unread postby PanicP » 17 January 2021, 19:15

Gradytt wrote:Thanks I appreciate it. I really want to be a power bottom.


If you really want to be a power bottom, you need to be in control until you are fully able to give yourself to someone.

You need to know what works for you and what doesn’t. There will be some positions that you might just not be able to master and that is ok!
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