Question on enemas

I always enema thoroughly before bottoming for my partner. I usually do a triple flush 30 minutes before bottoming just to make sure everything is clean in the pipe and when I do, I haven't had any messy accidents. However, my new partner is on the large side, goes deeper and I feel it, and it happened where I did have some discharge during anal with him. Is there any way to get cleaner deeper so to avoid any embarrassing situations? Thanks in advance for any input.

Honestly a triple enema is pretty hard-core cleaning. I know some people here abouts would balk at that (I'm kinda with them)

There is the possibility that the enemas are actually being counter productive if he is going that deep.

But at that point, you need to look more closely at diet. Because if three enemas isn't cutting it, there isn't much more you can do from that end.

When it comes to diet, everyone is different. You know your body best and will know what you can eat and what you can't for optimal bottoming.

It's all I can think to suggest. I would say more fiber but for you that might mean, you need to empty out more often or it might cause you to firm up and be more likely to hold stuff up there longer (which doesn't help your situation)

So specific dietary advise is gonna be difficult to recommend but diet is pretty much your only recourse short of full on colonic irrigation and that is neither healthy nor practical on the daily (some might argue, ever.)

gqguy101 wrote:some discharge during anal

without getting too graphic, was the 'discharge' what one would normally expect via that route or was it relatively watery? If the latter, then that's residual water/liquid retained and is one of the very real downsides of enemas before sex. Since this is a very personal decision for you (and your partner), I'm not going to try to convince you of this or that. I do remember advice about how long before a rendezvous one should finish cleaning with an eye towards the colon absorbing some excess water, but I'm honestly not sure how 'true' such advice is and my experience didn't always support that theory. There are plenty of variables involved, not the least of which is how well hydrated you are.

pozzie wrote:

gqguy101 wrote:some discharge during anal

without getting too graphic, was the 'discharge' what one would normally expect via that route or was it relatively watery? If the latter, then that's residual water/liquid retained and is one of the very real downsides of enemas before sex. Since this is a very personal decision for you (and your partner), I'm not going to try to convince you of this or that. I do remember advice about how long before a rendezvous one should finish cleaning with an eye towards the colon absorbing some excess water, but I'm honestly not sure how 'true' such advice is and my experience didn't always support that theory. There are plenty of variables involved, not the least of which is how well hydrated you are.

No, no. This is exactly what I was alluding to, regarding enemas being counterproductive.

Generally, I would have thought that more than half an hour prior to play, would he needed. Like, alot more. More like half a day for that kind of deep clear out.

But everyone is different I guess.

I Will always say, diet is the best way to stay clean back there.

I was well hydrated. I think it was the situation, I was getting really pounded hard, my new guy was really well endowed, and I felt him go much deeper than I usually take it. I was able to get totally relaxed in my bowel and that made it a good romp for the both of us, but I think that caused things to loosen up a bit too much. Hopefully, I'll get used to it.

Where's Dr Enema when we need him most?

You will need to experiment. Try changing the amount of water and your position. If you put too much water, too deep, it will 1) take longer to expel and 2) force a lot more stuff out, which in turn will make it necessary to repeat to make sure it is clean.

Write down how much water you used each time and interval between them (if you do it more then once). See the results and see which one works better for you.

It definitely comes down to experimentation. Since the body does stuff that we have no control over, there may not be a consistently reliable procedure. If I had a chance to redesign the human body, we all would have an "innie" and an "outie" to experiment with!