sex and real life and fantasy

Hello everyone.
I've been in the community for a long time, but I don't have much experience. I sucked and fucked once. Usually, it was a conversation that turned me on before the meeting, and the meeting itself is not so much. All this fantasy and watching porn movies turned me on. Unfortunately, when I met, I felt disappointed. Guys turn me on, but so do women. The thought that I am submissive and crazy about Jockstrap turns me on. Did you have any advice or maybe you have any advice?

My advice is to just keep exploring with men and women and see what you like best. Nothing wrong with liking both. Not all sexual encounters are great and some can be awkward but I highly recommend giving it another shot having sex with some more men.