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Unread postby Taylor94 » 26 November 2019, 07:22

Hi, I came to ask about a problem I've been having. A few months ago I got sick and it caused some issues. One of which is a hemorrhoid. I can no longer be the "catcher" which is not only irritating but upsetting. More so because I'm not really built too be a pitcher. My bat isn't really up to par if you know what I mean, and now I have no idea how I'm ever going to be able to please anyone sexually. I'm so afraid of talking to someone and getting close just for them to leave when they figure out I can give them what they want. It's really messing my head up. I'm afraid. :(
I really just need some kind of advice.
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Unread postby Eryx » 26 November 2019, 08:12

There are loads of people with hemorrhoids who can still perform as bottoms. Just get proper treatment and be nice to your butt. It might be that you're going to be more sensitive from now on, but as long as you ask the tops to be patient, it can still go well. Don't let this get over your head.

If it's too bad right now, just take a break and forget about it for a while. Your overall condition will improve if you let it! And then you can get back to having sex :)
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Re: Sex Without Anal?

Unread postby xeil » 27 November 2019, 15:50

Eryx wrote:There are loads of people with hemorrhoids who can still perform as bottoms. Just get proper treatment and be nice to your butt. It might be that you're going to be more sensitive from now on, but as long as you ask the tops to be patient, it can still go well. Don't let this get over your head.

If it's too bad right now, just take a break and forget about it for a while. Your overall condition will improve if you let it! And then you can get back to having sex :)


This. Plus talk about it to your doctor and get the right treatment. Anyways you can have sex in the meantime, I find oversimplying sex to penetrative sex kind of sad. There are much to sex than just penetration. So it might be an oppurtunity to discover them in the meantime ;)
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Unread postby kenzie_matt » 28 November 2019, 06:17

xeil wrote:There are much to sex than just penetration. So it might be an oppurtunity to discover them in the meantime ;)

Could not agree more! Don't miss out on beautiful life experiences because one avenue is temporarily suspended.
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Unread postby rogonandi » 28 November 2019, 09:17

Like others have said before me, there are plenty of other sex things you can do without anal anyway.
People love to follow fools; they don't feel so alone then.

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Unread postby Bri_guy » 1 December 2019, 10:15

If you engage in any kind of sexual activity that you're not 100% ok with, you'll regret or and/or be resentful of the other person for persuading you. It's better to abstain until you find a partner who's ok with your parameters and interested in & respects YOU as a person, as opposed to just getting what they want.
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Unread postby Tom.Edvardz » Yesterday, 05:55

Don't be sad about it.. it can be done gently or if you in a relationship you can just satisfy your bf with your mouth
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