Sex Without Anal?

Hi, I came to ask about a problem I've been having. A few months ago I got sick and it caused some issues. One of which is a hemorrhoid. I can no longer be the "catcher" which is not only irritating but upsetting. More so because I'm not really built too be a pitcher. My bat isn't really up to par if you know what I mean, and now I have no idea how I'm ever going to be able to please anyone sexually. I'm so afraid of talking to someone and getting close just for them to leave when they figure out I can give them what they want. It's really messing my head up. I'm afraid.
I really just need some kind of advice.

Eryx wrote:There are loads of people with hemorrhoids who can still perform as bottoms. Just get proper treatment and be nice to your butt. It might be that you're going to be more sensitive from now on, but as long as you ask the tops to be patient, it can still go well. Don't let this get over your head.

If it's too bad right now, just take a break and forget about it for a while. Your overall condition will improve if you let it! And then you can get back to having sex

This. Plus talk about it to your doctor and get the right treatment. Anyways you can have sex in the meantime, I find oversimplying sex to penetrative sex kind of sad. There are much to sex than just penetration. So it might be an oppurtunity to discover them in the meantime

xeil wrote:There are much to sex than just penetration. So it might be an oppurtunity to discover them in the meantime

Could not agree more! Don't miss out on beautiful life experiences because one avenue is temporarily suspended.

If you engage in any kind of sexual activity that you're not 100% ok with, you'll regret or and/or be resentful of the other person for persuading you. It's better to abstain until you find a partner who's ok with your parameters and interested in & respects YOU as a person, as opposed to just getting what they want.

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