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Unread postby Adam88 » 17 February 2013, 00:14

I feel like I'm the only gay guy who doesn't like anal sex.... I mean, I like giving it but I don't really like the notion of taking it. I feel like I'm limiting myself sexually... Anyone else on the same page as me?
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Unread postby HeWithAnE » 17 February 2013, 00:28

I don't like either. I'm kinda repulsed by either bottom or top, but heck, if he enjoys it I'll do it.
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Unread postby MissingPiece » 17 February 2013, 01:21

I'm not so big on it either. But if I was in a long term relationship with someone, and they wanted to do it, I doubt I would say no. In all honesty though, I think oral will kinda always be 'the main event' for me. I just like it better. :P
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Unread postby HeWithAnE » 17 February 2013, 01:24

MissingPiece wrote:I'm not so big on it either. But if I was in a long term relationship with someone, and they wanted to do it, I doubt I would say no. In all honesty though, I think oral will kinda always be 'the main event' for me. I just like it better. :P


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Unread postby MissingPiece » 17 February 2013, 01:32

HeWithAnE wrote:
MissingPiece wrote:I'm not so big on it either. But if I was in a long term relationship with someone, and they wanted to do it, I doubt I would say no. In all honesty though, I think oral will kinda always be 'the main event' for me. I just like it better. :P


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Good to know I'm not the only one who thinks so! :D
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Unread postby Reisy » 17 February 2013, 01:41

There are some guys who have a preference to only top. There are some guys who have a preference to only bottom. There are some guys who are versatile, and don't mind either way. There are some guys who just don't like anal altogether.

The only variable in any of these statements is in a relationship, you're going to compromise. Maybe you'll find someone who fits your sexual needs exactly, but more than likely you'll do whatever it takes to keep your partner satisfied, yes?
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Unread postby Josh » 17 February 2013, 03:09

MissingPiece wrote:
HeWithAnE wrote:
MissingPiece wrote:I'm not so big on it either. But if I was in a long term relationship with someone, and they wanted to do it, I doubt I would say no. In all honesty though, I think oral will kinda always be 'the main event' for me. I just like it better. :P


See that is how we should all feel if you ask me

Good to know I'm not the only one who thinks so! :D


It's great that different people prefer different things, surely? Throwing in more variety is always good and prevents sex from becoming tediously repetitive. :nod:
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Unread postby ShutUpAndBeHappy » 17 February 2013, 04:25

There certainly are other avenues for sexual pleasure with your partner. For example, there are sex toys where your dicks touch (which might not be as weird as it sounds.) You could also just find a little twinky slut and share him. ;)

I think I'm of like mind. As nice as anal looks in porn, from what I hear of it in real life, I'd rather not. I mean, if the guy was clean, I had a condom on, and we laid down newspapers, we might make it work. But I feel like oral would probably be the best thing for me.

I feel differently about girls. I love the idea of intercourse with a woman, but oral with a girl just seems gross. I don't know... I'll give it to her, but I don't want to receive it. I won't go near anal with women. They don't have a prostate, so what do they get out of it?

Everyone has different preferences, my friend. :)
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Unread postby baileyscheesecake » 17 February 2013, 05:16

Nah, I've gone with some very definite tops, and some very definite bottoms. As much as I think being versatile is great, that's easy for me to say when I enjoy both. I've actually gone with guys who don't like sex at all. Well, not anal sex. They just like oral and the like which... I don't consider sex, but hey, it's still fun and it still gets you off ;) Do what you're comfortable with, mate. We all limit ourselves sexually. Can't see myself doing felching or a glass-bottomed boat anytime soon.
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Unread postby ShutUpAndBeHappy » 17 February 2013, 05:34

baileyscheesecake wrote:Can't see myself doing felching or a glass-bottomed boat anytime soon.

You're such a fucking prude.
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Unread postby Josiemonster » 17 February 2013, 10:39

ShutUpAndBeHappy wrote:I won't go near anal with women. They don't have a prostate, so what do they get out of it?

You'd be surprised ;)
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Unread postby weswissa » 17 February 2013, 13:45

I was extremely adverse to anal when I first found out about it, but when I was younger, my fantasy was always be on the bottom, and even then I didn't like it. About 6 months ago when I first had sex, it was amazing. I also loved the guy I was with, so that probably helped. I would have let him do anything to me, not even kidding.
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Unread postby aerach » 17 February 2013, 16:10

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Re: So about anal sex...

Unread postby Blaz » 17 February 2013, 16:27

Just take it up the ass like a man already.
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Unread postby Brenden » 17 February 2013, 17:26

I used to find the idea of anal sex off-putting. But then I tried it, and now I think it's great. It feels much more intimate (especially bareback) and is more mutually-enjoyable than oral. It also gives a feeling of much stronger and deeper sexual bonding than oral does.
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Unread postby rawss. » 17 February 2013, 21:57

I'm not worlds biggest fan. I resent bottoming. I don't find it even slightly enjoyable. but I have the sex drive of a pillowcase so I really do need to be in the mood to enjoy even being top
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Unread postby Reisy » 17 February 2013, 23:22

ShutUpAndBeHappy wrote:As nice as anal looks in porn, from what I hear of it in real life, I'd rather not. I mean, if the guy was clean, I had a condom on, and we laid down newspapers, we might make it work.


What the fuck do you think happens when you have anal? That an avalanche of shit comes out? :lol:

Sex is sex. If the guy is clean, having anal sex is identical to vaginal sex. The only difference is that anal feels better for the top.
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Unread postby Paragon » 17 February 2013, 23:27

I hardly think it's limiting to do only what you're interested in. If you've tried it and found out for sure that you didn't like it, then good for you.
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Re: So about anal sex...

Unread postby baileyscheesecake » 18 February 2013, 00:13

ShutUpAndBeHappy wrote:
baileyscheesecake wrote:Can't see myself doing felching or a glass-bottomed boat anytime soon.

You're such a fucking prude.

I'm okay with cum-swapping, just not from somebody else's anus. Anyway, you have to go bareback to felch, and I don't want any STIs... also glass-bottomed boat is just disgusting. I mean, whatever other consenting adults want to do, yeah, fine, but any really weird shit is not for me.
I'd love to try a bit of role play, though. Mix some drama in with shagging. Could be hot. :)
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Unread postby GBR89 » 18 February 2013, 02:50

Not big on anal, really don't think I'll ever bottom, but if a hypothetical boyfriend wants it, I'm not going to let that be a big ongoing argument in the relationship.
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