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Unread postby StraitToBeTied » 30 December 2019, 10:19

Hey guys, As my user name mentions I’m a straight guy but in the last few years I’ve had interest in exploring men a bit. I’m 37 and have never hooked up with a guy in any way, as a matter of fact I’m not even attracted to men. Here is my deal, lately I’ve wanted to try bondage with a gay guy or gay couple. Mainly I want to have role play and be tied up by him/them and have some psychical contact. I have a long term girlfriend and we’ve explored similar “fetishes” and I’m very happy in my relationship but I can’t figure out why now in my mid 30’s I want to be bound and gagged by gay men?? Has anyone heard of this? Thoughts?
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Unread postby Frigid » 30 December 2019, 17:01

Ok
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Unread postby René » 30 December 2019, 17:06

I have heard of this, but only in the context of a new medication being taken, specifically dopamine receptor agonists for Parkinson's disease. Certain stimulants could also cause such a change.

I don't suppose either of those applies here?
Any new medications or recreational drug use?
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Re: Straight guy in gay bondage

Unread postby Frigid » 30 December 2019, 17:09

Or on the lines of psycho babble, expressing an unresolved issue with an authoritative Male figure.

Any case what’s your girlfriend think?
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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 30 December 2019, 17:38

StraitToBeTied wrote:but I can’t figure out why now in my mid 30’s I want to be bound and gagged by gay men?? Has anyone heard of this?

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Unread postby Eryx » 2 January 2020, 17:09

That probably just means you're not as straight as you thought? Just go for it, if you don't like it then just don't do it again. I'm all in favor of people experimenting with things they're curious about, the worse that could happen is for things not to be so fun. You should probably have someone at the ready to make things stop as well, just in case the guys you invite don't respect your wishes during the whole thing. That would definitely be bad.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 2 January 2020, 18:19

I think he should bring it up with his GF. She could play the referee so to speak. I'd almost be willing to fuck the brains out of a "straight" guy in that case just to show his GF exactly how straight he is not.
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Unread postby Willie » 14 January 2020, 05:31

Some things are better left to the imagination.
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Unread postby JoelR » 15 January 2020, 00:22

You can't control how hard you cum though when your hole is getting blasted with a cock ;)

I think it's okay to explore your sexual fetish? It's a fetish, after all, and I think all guys have unusual fetishes they'd like to explore.
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Unread postby StraitToBeTied » 17 January 2020, 15:30

I’m not on medication or a recreational drug user, I’m 100% that I’m not gay. I do however having a growing interest in exploring such activities. I was looking for less snarky or sarcastic replies and more advice or suggestions.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 17 January 2020, 15:47

Well on this site advice is often mixed with a little off-color humor. Get use to it or well not because that's the way it is.

Actually I think you got some decent advice mixed in with the humor. It also requires you to open your mind a bit about how others perceive you. It's quite rational for us to view someone with such desires as not being 100% straight. The sooner you get over your phobias about actually being partially (or more) gay the better off you will be.
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Unread postby René » 17 January 2020, 15:56

StraitToBeTied wrote:I’m not on medication or a recreational drug user, I’m 100% that I’m not gay. I do however having a growing interest in exploring such activities. I was looking for less snarky or sarcastic replies and more advice or suggestions.

Hey, my query was 100% genuine and intended to be helpful. What I described is literally something that has happened to thousands of people after starting certain medications or recreational drugs, while they had no idea that it could be a possible side effect. There was no way for me to know that you don't belong to that group except by me asking and you answering, as you have now done.
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Re: Straight guy in gay bondage

Unread postby StraitToBeTied » 17 January 2020, 16:09

I apologize, I’ve always had that fetish. Now I want. To try it with a man.
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Unread postby René » 17 January 2020, 16:18

It may not be helpful to think of this in terms of either gay/bi/straight or fetish labels in particular. It may be more helpful to think of it as simply your particular, though uncommon, position in a polydimensional spectrum of human sexual inclinations. Having ruled out obvious pharmacological explanations, there may be more sense in just dealing with the situation as it is than in continuing to attempt to find an explanation for its origins.
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