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Unread postby Yummysausage » 13 November 2020, 16:01

Hi guys I’m after some advice on sucking I have never touched another mans cock before let alone sucked one and I’m scared I’m going to be bad at it on my first time. I have never been sucked either so I have zero experience and I’m a virgin so I’m also shy.

Here some questions I want help with:

How do I know he’s ready to let me suck him? What’s the sign.

Do I let him get it out or do I take it out for him?

How do I start off if he’s soft to get him hard?

If he’s UNCUT do I pull his forskin back straightaway?

If he’s CUT do I go straight for the helmet?

Do I lick the shaft first or take it in my mouth to start him?

Do I do anything with his balls?

What position is most comfortable for both of us sitting/standing/laydown?

Do I pay more attention to the helmet than the shaft?

Is a lot of hand action good?

What if he’s rough and forces my head with his hand to I do what he wants (to please him)

How do I know when he’s going to cum and is it hard to take?

Do I swallow or do something else with the cum?


Thank you for reading my post I’m looking forward to good advice I’m so nervous and don’t even know where to start.
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby Marmaduke » 13 November 2020, 17:07

You’re overthinking it. Find an interested partner, the rest will become apparent as the situation unfolds. Don’t go into it thinking it’s the sort of task best approached by ticking off a to-do list. It’s not. That’s the opposite of what it is.

A good blowjob is just a good handjob with a lot of mouth. Work to that and you’ll be fine.
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby Yummysausage » 13 November 2020, 17:48

Thank you for the good advice. I guess it’s like anything in life. But I’m worried about a partner I want experience first. I’d want to pull someone that’s a stranger then I can make mistakes without overthinking it afterwards and it been awkward.

But wow I am excited though “a handjob with a lot more mouth” x
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby erti » 13 November 2020, 18:32

I find pleasure in pleasuring my partner. Women are more complicated to please because IDK if they're faking it or not. I like to 69.
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby Yummysausage » 13 November 2020, 18:52

erti wrote:I find pleasure in pleasuring my partner. Women are more complicated to please because IDK if they're faking it or not. I like to 69.


Hi thanks I think a 69 is a bit advanced for me I’m sure il get there though. I know what your saying about women at least I know what a man likes I guess.
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby erti » 13 November 2020, 18:57

well I am a women who is sexually attracted to women. I float both ways though. Ask the person to guide you while you two have oral sex. Like when I had sex with men I guide them what is pleasing and what isn't. Communication is best. Not all men get pleasure out of it. I know some men like their nipples played with... some don't like oral sex and much preferred anal/vaginal sex. And with anal, some prefer bottoms and some prefer tops. Communicate
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby René » 13 November 2020, 21:29

Yummysausage wrote:Thank you for the good advice. I guess it’s like anything in life. But I’m worried about a partner I want experience first. I’d want to pull someone that’s a stranger then I can make mistakes without overthinking it afterwards and it been awkward.

I imagine it can actually be the other way around, that exploring together with someone you care about and who cares about you could be less awkward and come with lower expectations than someone just looking to hook up.

With the right person, you should just feel comfortable and not feel like you have to worry about making mistakes or being judged.
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby John27 » 13 November 2020, 22:55

René wrote:
Yummysausage wrote:Thank you for the good advice. I guess it’s like anything in life. But I’m worried about a partner I want experience first. I’d want to pull someone that’s a stranger then I can make mistakes without overthinking it afterwards and it been awkward.

I imagine it can actually be the other way around, that exploring together with someone you care about and who cares about you could be less awkward and come with lower expectations than someone just looking to hook up.

With the right person, you should just feel comfortable and not feel like you have to worry about making mistakes or being judged.


Disclaimer: I have zero sexual experience that involves another person. But I'd agree with everything René said.

Speaking only for myself, I don't think I'd feel comfortable even considering a hookup as a first experience. And my thinking pretty has consistently pretty much mirrored René's thoughts. (Although there are other issues, too--the AIDS crisis of the 1980s left me terrorized of HIV. Which is one reason why I have zero experience. So I cringe at the thought of doing a hookup.)

Past that, I have heard commentary that suggests a lot of people do a hookup for a first experience, and then regret the decision later on.
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby Twilight66 » 15 November 2020, 05:06

Being straight most of my life, I had my first gay experience last year with a younger guy. Pretty sure I'm a bottom; and I really got off on sucking a guy's dick. It's powerful to see him get harder and harder as you do him, and listen to his words of pleasure that I'm providing to him. Not like with a woman, where you don't know whether she's climaxing or not; or just faking it. When a guy gets hard and cums in your mouth, you know that you are responsible for giving him that pleasure. A real turn on for me.
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby Yummysausage » 15 November 2020, 08:16

Twilight66 wrote:Being straight most of my life, I had my first gay experience last year with a younger guy. Pretty sure I'm a bottom; and I really got off on sucking a guy's dick. It's powerful to see him get harder and harder as you do him, and listen to his words of pleasure that I'm providing to him. Not like with a woman, where you don't know whether she's climaxing or not; or just faking it. When a guy gets hard and cums in your mouth, you know that you are responsible for giving him that pleasure. A real turn on for me.



I love the sound of that. I think that’s what would make me enjoy hearing him and feeling his cock as he harder till he came. It’s turning me on just thinking about it lol.

Thanks
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Re: Sucking advice

Unread postby Jasper1 » 18 November 2020, 23:23

I honestly thought this post was a wind up, even Spam but would you believe it, it turns out it’s legit!

What do I know!!! :argh:
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