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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Marmaduke » 24 March 2020, 15:33

Hey! I don't do cuckolding anymore! We've all made mistakes in our pasts! Stop kink shaming me!
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Magic J » 24 March 2020, 15:48

That's a shame. I imagine the market for experienced cuckolders will increase dramatically with 1) the increasing numbers of same sex marriages 2) the increasing duration of same sex marriages, and 3) the increasing knowledge of and concurrent interest in the practice. I predict a rise in demand in line with levels seen in married heterosexual couples.

The outlook's good, in my opinion. Invest in skills training now to take advantage of future dividends.
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Marmaduke » 24 March 2020, 15:50

Magic J wrote:That's a shame. I imagine the market for experienced cuckolders will increase dramatically with 1) the increasing numbers of same sex marriages 2) the increasing duration of same sex marriages, and 3) the increasing knowledge of and concurrent interest in the practice. I predict a rise in demand in line with levels seen in married heterosexual couples.

The outlook's good, in my opinion. Invest in skills training now to take advantage of future dividends.

If you're looking to learn, I'm sure we can come to an arrangement. Perhaps even, if we can broaden the context a little bit, call it an apprentiship. How much are you looking to pay in order to stay ahead in this emerging market?
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Magic J » 24 March 2020, 15:57

I'm a kink adviser, not a practicioner. My skills lie in reading the current cultural zeitgeist to best serve the needs of my clients, with the minimal of moral judgement.

For instance, choking is due to see a rapid downturn in the coming months, though I assume it will be a sharp crash with steady recovery thereafter. Keep in reserve.

Further advice will incur charges. My fees are reasonable, and please do feel free to email for a brochure.
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Marmaduke » 24 March 2020, 16:00

I get the feeling you're trying to tell me you don't want me to call your dick pathetic...
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Magic J » 24 March 2020, 16:02

Marmaduke wrote:I get the feeling you're trying to tell me you don't want me to call your dick pathetic...

Isn't that the reason anyone goes into consultancy?
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Marmaduke » 24 March 2020, 16:05

I must say, this revelation has turned my perception of this interpersonal dynamic right on it's head. :shrug:
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby René » 24 March 2020, 16:53

Marmaduke wrote:I have had three threesomes in my time. All with me being the third wheel with a couple.

The first, a couple who wanted an additional top. They said they both wanted someone dominant and we're into things like being talked down to and humiliated. Not usually my bag, but it was in my younger days, I was horny and they were hot. Regrettably, I lost myself in the macho jock persona that I had created for myself and whilst fucking the bottom, went into a super cringeful porno dialogue of "Who likes this dick?" etc that built until I instructed "Tell him he could never hope to satisfy you like this dick" and the bottom complied. Apparently with too much conviction. Because the top, visibly hurt, then left the room with tears in his eyes. Was not invited back.

The subsequent two times, I just clicked much more with one person than the other and to my shame just largely sidelined them. I've found that the couple have entered into the agreement to try a involving another person based on a lack of experience in one or both, or a difference in expereince that was causing them little confidence issues. But sadly, that just manifested to one person being clumsy and crap in bed and I just clicked with the other person and lost all interest in them.

I think, linking into my response on the other thread, I'm just a hard-wired one on one man. I struggle to maintain interest in two people generally, much less at the same time. It's too much to keep track of and just annoys me. In love as in life, I pride myself on undertaking tasks one at a time and putting in my best effort, as opposed to multi-tasking to the detriment of performance or outcome.

It's been some considerable time since I even entertained the notion of indulging in hook-ups of two or more people. I just dismiss them out of hand. I also point blank refuse to persue anything vaguely sexual or romantic with anyone in a relationship, open or otherwise, even having spoken to both people and confirming they're both fine with something happening that they're not both involved in. I don't like the dynamic.

Whilst I am by no means morally opposed to casual, no strings encounters, I do enjoy that moment of connection. I think a lot of that enjoyment is not knowing what the encounter will lead to. A sense of optimistic hope that maybe it could become something more, even if I know that we've gone into it on the unspoken understanding that it wont. That's not a mindset I can find with someone I know is already in a relationship. It kills any and all sexual attraction I would have towards them. Sure, I can be playfully flirtatious with people, but in a super benign way.

Haha :lol:

To provide somewhat of a counterpoint to this story... I don't know if the following is TMI so I'll put it in a spoiler tag, but for anyone who's interested in some more details... you have been warned :D:

[Reveal] Spoiler: "Possibly too much information"
We were so sexually (and otherwise) compatible with this guy, it was insane. As far as sex goes, Brenden is a top and I'm a bottom; this guy was a versatile bottom who gets really subby when he bottoms, which was great because Brenden has a really high sex drive and he got to fuck him a lot and really hard (which I really got off on watching), and I would rim the guy before Brenden fucked him and suck him off while he was getting fucked or afterward. He had the nicest butt. The first night, in our hotel room (before we moved over to his house the next day), Brenden actually fucked him 3 times (or rather, he came while inside him 3 times in 2 sessions). We were all clearly able to make each other feel really good at the same time in different ways.

None of us felt like a "third wheel" at any point. The one time Brenden pounded me in front of him in his bed, I gestured for him to come over to my face and we kissed really passionately while Brenden went at it; we were all always fully participating somehow. I also loved lying underneath the guy and kissing him while Brenden was plowing him from behind, feeling his weight and Brenden's thrusts through his body resting on top of me (and running my hands through his hair, incidentally stopping his head crashing into the headboard of the bed all the time — though he said he didn't mind that :lol:).

He was a really hot, fit, very hairy otter-type guy, totally our type (I was in heaven just running my hands and face through all his body hair :drool:) with a really cute face and smile, and his face went all red whenever Brenden fucked him and it just looked adorable :3

And we did some more stuff I will not go into publicly, hahaha :D

It was all so wild. :P And it all just really worked with the three of us in ways it could never have worked in any 1-on-1 pairing between just two of us.

And that moment of connection you refer to Joe, that was totally there, just with 3 people instead of 2 — which I guess goes back to us being polyamorous (which, contrary to what I imagine some might think, is really something you discover about yourself like being gay, not a lifestyle choice; I couldn't choose not to be this way). :heart:

Right down to not knowing what the encounter will lead to and that sense of optimistic hope that maybe it could become something more, by the way! We would have totally loved making this a long-term thing and inviting him to try living with us and making it something more exclusive and committed, or continuing to live at his house. We absolutely would have if it had been more feasible. We would probably have extended our stay if it hadn't been for that damned coronavirus pandemic. We felt totally at home in his house. His bed briefly became our bed, and it feels downright weird sleeping somewhere else without him now. :runaway:

It'll take some time to adapt to living without him again. It feels weird not just having him around all the time and being able to just grab him for a quick cuddle/kiss or vice versa, which happened a lot during those 5 days. :3
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Brenden » 24 March 2020, 21:14

René! That is way too much information! :runaway:
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Marmaduke » 24 March 2020, 21:54

Brenden wrote:René! That is way too much information! :runaway:

Yeah, but also, three times in one night! You absolute lad.
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Magic J » 24 March 2020, 21:58

Brenden wrote:René! That is way too much information! :runaway:

Go ahead. Delete it. It's too late.

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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 25 March 2020, 01:30

Do you think you would feel the same if this guy was local?
Like able to see whenever either of you guy's wanted?
Do you plan on meeting a guy in your area?
It's easy to have an experience together that both can forget and leave in the past. I'm curious if you guy's are considering a more regular thing with another guy. And how you guy's feel about that?
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby erti » 25 March 2020, 01:35

Welp, I didn’t expect this from the admin’s. I have nothing interesting to share. So right on? Lol my sex life is spontaneous. I may or may not be pregnant. Don’t quote me. :/
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 25 March 2020, 01:53

erti wrote:Welp, I didn’t expect this from the admin’s. I have nothing interesting to share. So right on? Lol my sex life is spontaneous. I may or may not be pregnant. Don’t quote me. :/

I dont want to come off as preachy. But please use protection jess. You need to work on yourself before you can decide if you can have a child or not. I'm not saying your being irresponsible but from your past post it seems like you need to figure yourself and your own situation out first.

I just hope you play safe from now on for your own sake.
Please keep us updated on this. Love ya. :hug:
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby erti » 25 March 2020, 01:59

Capt._Trips wrote:
erti wrote:Welp, I didn’t expect this from the admin’s. I have nothing interesting to share. So right on? Lol my sex life is spontaneous. I may or may not be pregnant. Don’t quote me. :/

I dont want to come off as preachy. But please use protection jess. You need to work on yourself before you can decide if you can have a child or not. I'm not saying your being irresponsible but from your past post it seems like you need to figure yourself and your own situation out first.

I just hope you play safe from now on for your own sake.
Please keep us updated on this. Love ya. :hug:


I know I should use protection and it’s with one person. I feel pressured to it sometimes but I allow it.
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 25 March 2020, 02:16

erti wrote:
Capt._Trips wrote:
erti wrote:Welp, I didn’t expect this from the admin’s. I have nothing interesting to share. So right on? Lol my sex life is spontaneous. I may or may not be pregnant. Don’t quote me. :/

I dont want to come off as preachy. But please use protection jess. You need to work on yourself before you can decide if you can have a child or not. I'm not saying your being irresponsible but from your past post it seems like you need to figure yourself and your own situation out first.

I just hope you play safe from now on for your own sake.
Please keep us updated on this. Love ya. :hug:


I know I should use protection and it’s with one person. I feel pressured to it sometimes but I allow it.

Never put yourself in a position you feel pressured. Be the presser. I know it's easier said then done. But you have way more risk then he does. So tell him to have protection or no jess for him. I'm sure he will find it or buy it.

You know your worth something right? Dont ever feel your not
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby erti » 25 March 2020, 02:33

Capt._Trips wrote:
erti wrote:
Capt._Trips wrote:
erti wrote:Welp, I didn’t expect this from the admin’s. I have nothing interesting to share. So right on? Lol my sex life is spontaneous. I may or may not be pregnant. Don’t quote me. :/

I dont want to come off as preachy. But please use protection jess. You need to work on yourself before you can decide if you can have a child or not. I'm not saying your being irresponsible but from your past post it seems like you need to figure yourself and your own situation out first.

I just hope you play safe from now on for your own sake.
Please keep us updated on this. Love ya. :hug:


I know I should use protection and it’s with one person. I feel pressured to it sometimes but I allow it.

Never put yourself in a position you feel pressured. Be the presser. I know it's easier said then done. But you have way more risk then he does. So tell him to have protection or no jess for him. I'm sure he will find it or buy it.

You know your worth something right? Dont ever feel your not


It’s complicated really. I know I’m not exactly in a position to have kids right now. I want to make everyone happy and I’ll do it in the exchange of my own happiness. Because of the situation I’m indifferent. I do want a kid sometimes and he also wants a kid with me. I want to die and I want a reason to not kill myself. If I had a kid I have a reason to live. I have a purpose. It may not make much sense but it makes sense in my head.

I feel worthless tbh I’m nothing but a lost cause. Im a pos. I deserve all this shit. I deserve to die. I’m scared to die but I’m scared of life too.
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Re: Threesomes

Unread postby René » 25 March 2020, 11:53

Capt._Trips wrote:Do you think you would feel the same if this guy was local?
Like able to see whenever either of you guy's wanted?
Do you plan on meeting a guy in your area?
It's easy to have an experience together that both can forget and leave in the past. I'm curious if you guy's are considering a more regular thing with another guy. And how you guy's feel about that?

Yeah, if staying at his house for longer wouldn't have meant being 3400 miles away from our apartment with our emergency food stores in it and missing what may be the only transatlantic flight that could get us back there should we need to, or even just if there hadn't been this pandemic, we would totally have wanted to just keep living with him at his house for a while and see where it leads. Us being there seemed to make him really happy, and it certainly made the two of us really happy. I'd have done anything for us to get to spend more time with that guy tbh. If he was local, that would be nothing short of amazing. Even if we only got to see him occasionally...but if we could have a long-term thing with him, that would be a dream come true.

He did say we clearly clicked and that if we lived more nearby it would be a possibility... I'd actually be open to the possibility of moving to the US if that's what it took, but Brenden doesn't ever want to move back to a country that e.g. has a massively bigger violent-crime problem and doesn't guarantee healthcare for all its citizens like Scotland does.

It's honestly really hard to forget about this guy and just leave him in the past when he seems so ridiculously perfect for us, not just sexually but also in terms of personality, interests, hobbies, etc. We love science and IT — he's a software engineer who works in scientific research at a university. We all love the same kinds of board games, movies, TV shows and video games, we love his cooking, we all can't get enough of cuddling together, etc. And he loved being the middle spoon. :3

Right now the plan is to try dating some more local guys here with the aim of finding one we could see joining us and spending the rest of our lives with, though I find it hard to imagine there's anyone remotely as awesome for us out there over here as this guy we stumbled upon in Maryland. :P

Having said that, he did seem genuinely interested in visiting us over here once this corona mess is over, and who knows, maybe we won't have found anyone yet and spending a week or two living with us over here and seeing how awesome Scotland is will make him want to move to be with us. Or maybe we will be dating someone local and he'll just visit as a friend but then see what he's missing out on and pursue us. That would be amazing. If not, I would at least want to keep seeing him from time to time, as a close friend if nothing else, once travel is easier again. We definitely still need to go back to D.C. to see all the things that were shut this time, like the Smithsonian museums. Maybe we'll see them together with him sometime. :3
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