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Unread postby guyyyy23 » 8 May 2020, 07:01

Hey guys, I'm a 23 yo bi guy. I've never openly expressed my attraction to men and It's only quite recently that I discovered it. I've only ever had girlfriends and I mostly ignore my attractions towards certain guys. However I've been exploring and I got into the world of gay chat, camming and stuff, and for the past few months I have this urge to cam very often, and the thing is I love being as feminine as possible to the guy. I just love being a bottom. I do stuff like twerking and spanking my ass, and I really just like making them cum. Most of the cam sessions I just go guy after guy making them cum, without me getting anything in return. I'm not really able to explain why I'm into this. I'm totally not into being a top, like at all. Is it normal? I like being manly to girls and a bottom to guys. Anyone else feel the same?
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Unread postby Eryx » 8 May 2020, 18:24

Yeah it's normal, and millions of gay men feel the same way as you. There's nothing wrong with it. And once you actually meet someone in real life, camming won't seem as interesting as it is right now lol. It's basically the first step.
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Unread postby Stud21 » 9 May 2020, 05:24

Yeah, that’s totally normal.
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Unread postby Spacekitty » 18 May 2020, 10:32

Buddy, totally normal and clearly your natural state of being that you connect the best with. Don't beat yourself up about it. It's who you truly are on the inside.
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Unread postby BottomnBama » 19 May 2020, 05:33

I can definitely resonate with this. With women I am super dominant and aggressive. It’s been years since I bottomed with a guy and I am going to be pursuing that in the near future. Back when I was sleeping with guys, I liked letting go and being submissive to them.

It was nice to not have to be in control and the pleasurable pain of anal sex was a fantastic stress relief. I found that I orgasmed pretty easy from anal, so I never asked to be sucked or played with...preferring to do all the work and spoil the other guy instead.

The main thing with being Bi is the mental confusion. It’s easy to overthink it and guilt yourself because we are brought up not to want what we want. So do yourself a favor and have fun with it. Give yourself permission to safely explore sex with men and find out what you like and don’t like.
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