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Unread postby whoiswlliamonyebor » 4 September 2019, 22:26

Hey there.

Ignorant straight here. Just got some stuff I wanna talk about a little bit if anybodys game to respond.

I like women. Always have. Never felt attracted to dudes. But other thoughts have cropped up over the last ten years or so. Strictly masturbative and always when alone and particularly horny.

I read once, a very long time ago now, somewhere, that men will naturally tend to invert their sex drive upon themselves and their own body when there is no females to direct it towards otherwise and I have kind of always agreed with that. When there are no strong urges toward any females in particular that I have interacted with in whatever fashion, there is still an urge that grows daily and after some days... I dont know how to put it... The urge exceeds preferences and I could masturbate without thinking about anything or anybody. I dont know what to call it but something like autoerogony maybe???

Anyway, in this state I begin to feel like I could be bottom or top with equal pleasure. I go from thinking about females to thinking about the male fundament from one minute to the next.

I have experimented with anal play for over ten years and have no shame or feelings of denial about it. It just is what it is. A weird perversion evolved out of years and years of being single. I still consider myself straight.

But recently I have started to fantasize explicitly and in more detail and length about intercourse with dudes.

Im beginning to think maybe I am just subconsciously adapting to the times?? Everybody is going gay these days and while I cant say I am fond of these developments I cant hate on it either because I never had any serious misgivings about the sexuality itself. (women on women or men on men). But for the fact that I have for years been 100% oriented toward the pther sex, with singular weakness and gullibility... wheras men never. Simply never, in person.

TLDR Im a straight guy that kind of considers going gay just to break things up. Am I broken? Men still dont turn me on, but I get freakin horny sometimes, bros.

Can anybody else relate?

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Re: What Are Your Thoughts on This

Unread postby mxguy01 » 5 September 2019, 15:49

Well there does seem to be a segment of gays who appear to be into straight guys. I would guess your easiest bet to experiment would be to start out on Grindr or similar app. So if you think your a straight guy looking to experiment, put it in your profile and see what happens.
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Re: What Are Your Thoughts on This

Unread postby Eryx » 6 September 2019, 03:39

There's no "going gay" and I think what you read is probably bullshit, I've never heard that before. Maybe you were always bi and just never thought too much about it because you were fine with just women, maybe you've just changed with time and want to experiment with new things now. There's no conscious choice though. The only choice you've got now is to act on these new urges or not.
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Re: What Are Your Thoughts on This

Unread postby Jryski » 6 September 2019, 06:08

Everybody is going gay these days? Being gay isn't like going to Church. Just because it's Sunday and every white person in the bible belt is going, doesn't mean you are too. It's a personal thing like your hair colour. Just because everybody around me is a natural blonde doesn't mean that I am one too. As for your fantasies, if you want it just go get it. Have fun, be safe, and enjoy. That's pretty much all there is to it.
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Re: What Are Your Thoughts on This

Unread postby Stroker54 » 8 September 2019, 13:52

"I have experimented with anal play for over ten years and have no shame or feelings of denial about it. It just is what it is. A weird perversion evolved out of years and years of being single. I still consider myself straight."

I would think if you have had over ten years of anal play then you must enjoy it. So what would it be like if you weren't having to do it all by yourself. What would it feel like to just get fucked. I know you have mulled all this over and weighed it against "I'm not gay". There's a good chance you could have a fun, safe, bisexual tryst. As Eryx said there are several ways to hook up with like minded men. Balls in your court, you can sit back and continue as you are or you can step out of your comfort zone and try something new and different. Trust me when I say you can find what you are looking for but you have to take the first step. Good luck and let us know how it goes. Remember play safe!
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Re: What Are Your Thoughts on This

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 8 September 2019, 15:04

Being gay is such a fad these days. The other day these hoodlums in hoodies tried to suck my dick as I was riding the metro. What ever happened to getting a traditional beating or an ol’ fashioned “smear the queer”? Today’s youth are all about PANDERING!
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