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Unread postby Aalc » 30 October 2021, 15:48

I’m bottom 100%. In general, I am sure bottoming to a good top, well lubed, with each partner respecting each other is probably the highest level of pleasure that someone can feel. Of course, as long as you’re attracted to that. And I say that for sure: some studies measured brain activity levels of straight guys fucking a woman, top gay guys fucking a man, straight woman getting fucked by a man, lesbian woman having sex (both positions), and, gay guys being bottom. The results showed that the levels of brain activity related to pleasure were, in average, significantly higher on bottom gay guys. A point: the study was made with multiple samples of each group, and each person identified themselves with the sexual orientation and sexual position tested (example: they didn’t test a gay men that identifies himself as a top being measured being a bottom). The result basically means that, in average, gay male bottoms (as long as you identify yourself that way) get more sexual pleasure than straights, gay tops and lesbians.

For me, being a bottom is the greatest gift of my homosexuality. It’s indescribable pleasure. I’m into guys with thick dicks (for me, the thickest, the better). Not rly into guys with thin dicks, even if it’s long. In general, in order for bottoming not to be painful (then it’s not good), I usually follow some rules. 1st: cleaning myself inside (enema), because an empty asshole gets dick better. 2nd: lube, lots of lube. 3rd: always removing asshole hair, because that can cause pain. 4th: I try to always control the beginning, by seating on the guy’s dick, controlling the first penetration. That way I “get used” to the guy’s dick and then I let him do every other position. If the guy doesn’t let you to start by seating on him or any other position you can control the beginning, the first penetration might hurt, but just ask for the guy to stop with the dick inside of you, and wait like 20/30 seconds. The pain stops.

About the feeling: for me it starts to feel good when the dock is “opening” the asshole. It just feels awesome. Then it comes the prostate stimulation, which is like you’re being masturbated from inside, but with 3x the pleasure, and the other feelings when deeper are indescribable, it’s like feeling the person you want to be with, being inside of you. It’s awesome!
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby stevie1400 » 31 October 2021, 13:43

It feels very 'intimate' having another guy's private parts inside you. That's the best way I'd describe it.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Peter123777 » 31 October 2021, 15:08

René wrote:For me, it's very physically pleasurable in a way I find hard to describe, but a lot of it is a mental thing about submission, knowing a guy is having his way with me and getting pleasure out of "using" my body I guess. A lot of it is also an emotional connection thing, bonding with a guy, kind of becoming one, a physical expression of love, and knowing I have something of his left inside me afterwards is really nice (and hot) and makes me feel very close to him. :3

It's always been associated with building or being in a relationship for me. I've never had sex with a guy I didn't have feelings for or wasn't or didn't end up in a relationship with. (I only have sex with my husband and our boyfriend and never need to use condoms.)
I suppose it must be a little different in other contexts, but the only time I tried to have what was meant to be casual sex with a guy, we'd already started developing feelings for each other by the time we were actually doing it. :P :keke:



Curious to find out whether other people feel the same way I do after bottoming.
After bottoming, do you also feel empowered in some way? like better physically, emotionally etc?
If so, what it’s like? how long does it lasts? What elements makes those feelings stronger, last longer?

Are you also like topping? and if so, more or less than bottoming?
How’s bottoming is different than topping for you? In strengthening the bond with the partner, etc?
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Simonsub » 31 October 2021, 19:54

The delights of being a bottom

………anticipation as you lie there on your belly or on your hands and knees knowing soon you will have a hard cock inside you; the sounds of him putting a condom on, and the feel of his hand lubing up your hole and teasing it with his fingers………the feel of his hard cock rubbing up and down your crack and……then….at the entrance of your pussy……prising it’s way into you. And the gorgeous feeling as it enters right into you and slides deep as.

To arch back with him deep inside you and slowly fucking you with his arm around your chest holding you back as you kiss together and then his hands grip your hips and your are held for his pleasure as he drives into you getting faster with his thrusts. And the delicious feeling as his hard throbbing cock hits your prostate and you gasp!

Then he pulls out, grabs your legs and swings you over on to your back, lifts your legs and holds them wide apart as, hand-free, he pokes and guides his hard cock into your pussy. Deep at first, then falls over on top of you to put his tongue in your mouth and kiss you deeply, slowly moving his cock in and out, fucking you – that gorgeous animal feeling of him using you, of his power and of his desire and arousal. And then just he uses just the tip of his hard cock on your hole entrance and teases your prostate, in and out hitting your prostate each time and you reach for your cock and enjoy the super sensations wracking your body.

And then he swings you back on your belly again, grabs your hips and pulls you up in a doggy position again and half stands over the top of you crouching with his legs half bent and slides back into you deep again -that gorgeous feeling of his cock back into you again, and his power as he rises and falls on top of you fucking you fast and deeply, enveloping you with his body, feeling his increasing arousal as you keep your arse up high and slump your head and shoulders to the bed loving the sensation of him using your bum, of his cock thrusting into you and him getting faster and harder as his climax gets nearer……and then his moan, his grunting and you feel him ejaculating into you and you push back onto his thrusting ejaculating cock and you milk him for all he can give you

Between the fantastic sensations as above, and the psychology of submitting and being used by a horny top.......being a bottom is gorgeous imo.

Simon :-)
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Bimm » 8 November 2021, 18:58

adda100 wrote:Hi everybody,

I'd be curious to know what you feel when you are getting fucked, especially the most pleasurable feelings. Could you describe them for me?


For me, there is definitely an intense sensual/sexual feeling when I’m getting fucked. There are quite a few men out there that think bottoms want nothing more than rough anal sex but, as most of us know, that is not true. If you are prepared and have lube, (I always need lube, spit doesn’t work for me) it can be a very pleasurable experience.

Half the time, I can cum, hands free, from anal sex. It is one of the best orgasms I can have. I have two favorite positions. Missionary and sitting on him face to face. I love seeing his face when I know he is going to cum and if I haven’t cum already, his orgasm will send me into a beautiful sexual experience as I cum too. If the person I am with hears me say “Oh, Fuck Me!” he knows I am about to cum.

Also, with unprotected sex, there is a nice feeling that you have something of his that is now part of you. However, be VERY CAREFUL with whom you have unprotected sex.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Pey Pey » 14 November 2021, 06:54

It has been such a long time since I was on the top with a partner. I think in the 3 relationships I have had I can count on one hand where I have been on top. I really enjoy being the bottom and feeling my partner penetrate me . It is so exhilarating. Also when he cums inside of me that is the most wonderful feeling in the world.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Bimm » 15 November 2021, 18:15

Peter123777 wrote:Curious to find out whether other people feel the same way I do after bottoming.
After bottoming, do you also feel empowered in some way? like better physically, emotionally etc?
If so, what it’s like? how long does it lasts? What elements makes those feelings stronger, last longer?

Are you also like topping? and if so, more or less than bottoming?
How’s bottoming is different than topping for you? In strengthening the bond with the partner, etc?


I’m not sure that I would call it empowered. I do feel an emotional feeling about being able to please a man to the point of orgasm by letting him into my body. The feel of his manhood in my ass and the increase of intensity of his breathing make me want to please him even more.

I stated in a different post that I know what it feels like to have a blowjob and to put my cock in an ass but feeling one in me, sliding in and out and making him go crazy is what makes me feel wonderful.

I can’t explain but, I get great pleasure out of making a man feel like a man.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby kdi69 » 17 November 2021, 23:58

lufia wrote:For me, it's just pure pleasure. I love it all. I love the feeling when a man is pressing against my hole, and then it suddenly opens up and engulfs his cock. I don't even consider it sex unless I have a cock inside me. I have been with women, and topped for men, but nothing compares to the feeling I get when a man is pounding my hole, hits my spot, and leaves me spraying all over him. I once considered myself bi or versatile, but I became a total bottom the day I had my first buttgasm. The orgasm is so much more intense. Even when I'm masturbating, I'm not fully satisfied anymore without my vibrator. I pretty much stay perpetually horny unless I have something in my ass. It makes me feel like a dirty little slut, and I just can't get enough. I'm addicted to it.


Wow! That is so me... yeah, the prostate-only, no-hands, totally-flaccid, multiple (MULTIPLE!) orgasm is life-changing. The circumstances in which I've been able to achieve it are kind of random (a certain type of partner doing a certain thing that goes just right and suddenly painpainpainpainpressurepressurepressure turns to the first of probably a hundred or more contractions. I will run through my body's store of semen in 10-12 contractions/squirts, and then i'm shooting dry, just contracting over and over for sometimes many minutes beyond when I'm actually ejaculating fluid still.

Nothing like it, and it's what I'm always seeking (despite having only experienced it maybe 8 times, at least 2 of which were experiences I didn't choose or consent to, which boy... complicated), but even just the feeling of being penetrated is so intense, too. When I think of 'sex' or 'having sex' it's always my butt and the top's penis and one-way rutting. That's my sex, how I have sex and think of it (happy to just suck, too, or fool around or whatever... I don't HAVE to have any specific thing, but that's my thing, even so). It just feels... right. Like, purposeful. I know it's a trope in some hypno and like porn to suggest 'you were born to do this,' but it's so resonant and hot to people because it's perfect and fits.

Ultimately, for all the physical sensations, the real feeling of bottoming for me is yielding/submitting/being subsumed by the desires and physicality of another man.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby jaredjoy90 » 23 November 2021, 17:37

There is a point to my story: I was born straight as silly as it sounds then had a mishap with my penis when I was 24 that did nerve damage so I could no longer get erections.

Trying to carry on a relationship with a partner without sexual intercourse is difficult. Women tend to want intercourse in a relationship. Having a few relationships with women not go well after my accident, I went completely celebate for about a year. I missed the touch of other humans. While on holidays I met my ex husband. We fooled around in my hotel room for a bit and I got a bit inebriated and he topped me. There was mild pain, but it was the first time I had a satisfactory sexual encounter in over a year, I was just on the receiving end. No more feeling like a dud. I made someone happy sexually. I got on that high horse and rode it some more. It was nice. Another thing I can point out is that the nerves in my rectum weren't damaged so it was the most sexual stimulation I had as well since. Here we are, 7 years later and I'm still bottoming and loving it.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Tilt » 3 December 2021, 09:01

When I was young and thought I was bi I would try to fuck anything that moved, topping exclusively. Somehow, being a bottom didn't come into my life until my thirties when I met a younger guy for a hook-up who declared himself exclusively top. I had been experimenting with plugs so I knew I could be stretched without too much pain. He didn't have the biggest cock in the world, so I decided to give it a go.

As he licked my hole I was aware that it was making me very hard, with drops of precum appearing from my cock. He had me on my back in the muff diving position, sucking my hard cock as well, which at the time I thought was strange for a top only guy.

I sat astride him, lowering myself onto his cock, feeling that jolt when the helmet first makes it past the point of entry. HEAVEN! My cock was still hard, fit to bursting, and he pulled me off whilst I got my ass comfortable. We moved to doggy, which blew my mind as he rutted away. I could feel myself being used and loved it. The intensity of a smaller cock in my virtually virgin pussy was amazing. When he flipped me onto my back he said he was going to fuck me like a girl. I was so full of pleasure and excitement, but with a little bit of power as I knew I was pleasing him.

When he eventually came I was wanking my cock in time with his thrusts, which made me cum harder than I ever had as a top. He pulled his cock out gently, wiped cum from my arse, mixed it with mine on my belly and fed it to me.

After that my arse ached for hours, but it was a nice ache. A reminder of what I had experienced. It gave me a warm feeling inside. I never fucked another woman after that, I knew this was my calling. I've topped guys a few times but being a gay bottom is my preferred identity. The expectancy of waiting for a cock to make that first entrance is so exciting. It's a beautiful experience.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby subman sensual » 10 April 2022, 07:25

My best orgasms are when i'm bottoming.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby tf » 10 April 2022, 16:50

It’s good to feel my sphincters expand. Or when he cum my mouth.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby jaybo » 4 July 2022, 05:43

I can bottom or I can top but let me say this as far as bottoming ......

First , It can be a beautiful experience with the right person which I have encountered very few times in my life, most guys just want to pound you like a jack hammer .... it's not fun , and it fucking hurts!
Second, let me tell you when, don't expect me to suck you for a few minutes then think you gonna just shove 9 inches in me .... um NO!

The best orgasmic experiences I have had bottoming are with guys that take their time, I like to be fucked slow, size is not the issue, I have had orgasms bottoming with 6" dick and 12" dick but if your just gonna hammer me you won't be in me very long.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Stylin7 » 15 July 2022, 00:30

I agree, I am sane way, I love it slow and sensual, slow tickles me inside and cause body to shake, then explode, AMAZING
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Christian2 » 10 September 2022, 12:43

I am the bottom in our relationship, so - of course - I enjoy it very much. The intense feeling of HIM using my body only for his pleasure is exciting. The fact that the positions allow him (almost for all the time) full control over my body, thrills me. It already starts when he enters the bedroom and tells me to undress completely. I stand naked in front of him and then he tells me the position to take... so hot...
Then I hear how he opens his trousers. He takes off his leather belt. I am knowing perfectly that he can use it also to discipline me. Then I hear how he puts on his condom. Then he demands to open my legs... and so on. Many of you know it. The very centre of our relationship is the sex and it means I bottom. My butt is at his disposal...
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Exile » 25 October 2022, 04:25

Probably one the most amazing feelings I can imagine. I don’t know what a drug induced high feels like, but this is cocaine for my body. From the anticipation of getting ready to meet him to feeling his cock pulse in me releasing his seed is all ecstasy. I can cum anally, and do most often when I’m fucked. It varies in degrees from ooo there’s one to body shake 3 min spasms. Smaller size dick takes forever and my orgasms are usually small. Get a larger cock involved, 8” and girthy, 1-1/2” diameter and I’m having whole body orgasms that last up to minutes. First entry is tight, nerves controlling my opening. 30secs in and slow long strokes I’m starting to rock, 20 mins in I might be a slut and begging him to breed me and 30 mins in he better trying to push his dick out of my nose from back there because I’m probably wanting it hard and fast. I’m always hoping we get about 15 mins in and he wants a break. If we do that, I can and have fucked for hours. And loved every second of it. I want to know walking around with cum in me and my uncomfortable ass that I was bred well and he ruined my ass so I can’t take another cock for a couple days. Gives him time to build up and me time readjust things down there.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Driveitdeep59 » 12 November 2022, 06:20

The first time I bottomed I was very young. The guy was 6 yrs older than myself and I was staying at his mother's house since my mother was working out of town that weekend. He asked me if I wanted to sleep in his bed since he had a queen size bed and I normally slept on a twin. As I was getting undressed for bed and went to get in he was already in bed. He pulled back the blanket for me as I prepared to get in bed. He told me to sleep without my underwear and I would be warmer that way. I figure he knew what he was talking about so I pulled them off and got in bed. He covered me up and pulled me back against him. One of the first things I felt was his hard cock against my ass. He adjusted himself so his cock lay in the crack of my ass. He started to slowly slide his cock along my ass.
"Does that feel good," he asked.
"Yeah, it feels nice," I responded.
He then rolled me over onto my stomach and got on top of me. He started rubbing his cock along my ass crack again. He did this for awhile and asked me again if it felt good. I was laying with my head on my hands as I enjoyed it even more.
"That feels so good," I said.
"I wanna try something different," he said, so I nodded my head okay. He leaned over by the bed and put something on his fingers then rubbed it on my asshole. He then placed the head of his cock against my hole and started to push against it.
"Just relax your body," he said, " This might hurt a little bit but you will really like it once it's inside."
He raised up and started applying more pressure until the head of his cock entered my ass.
"It hurts, it hurts too much, please take it out," I pleaded. I never felt such pain in my short life. Tears were streaming down my face.
"Shhhhhh," he whispered in my ear, "I just need to go in more." He started pushing again and I bit down on the pillow as he ripped me open. He kept pushing and it continued hurting more. The slower he went the worst it felt.
"Just relax, I'm almost all the way in."
It took everything I had to relax my ass and once I did his cock slipped in further. I could feel his pubes against my ass and for some strange reason I knew the hard part was over.
"Mmmmm, you're so tight," he said. I could feel his cock flexing inside of me as he kissed my shoulder.
"Just get used to it being in you," he said. I could still feel the pain but it wasn't as intense. He laid still on top of me for a few minutes when he slowly started pulling it out. I thought we were finished. It hurt as he pulled back but not as bad. He then slowly slid it all the way in and it still felt uncomfortable. He started a slow in and out motion and I could feel his cocks thickness as it scraped against all sides of my asshole. The pain started to subside after a few minutes and oddly enough started feeling really good.
"Are you ok," he asked.
"Yes, it feels much better."
"I knew you would like it," he said as he breathed into my ear and started going a little bit faster.
"Mmmmm, that feels really good."
"I'm going to take it out for a bit so you'll enjoy it more." As he pulled out my hole felt so empty and I swear I could feel the cool air sooth it on the inside. He turned me onto my back and I watched him grab his cock and guide it back to my asshole. He slid in all the way and I moaned out loud.
"Ahhhhhh, yessssssss, that feels so much better." He then placed his hands under my shoulders as he pushed himself all the way in each time. He started kissing my neck and nibbling on my ears as his cock slid effortlessly in and out of me.
"That feels so nice Bobby," I whispered in his ear.
He started going faster and harder as this pleasure spread through my body. He started breathing really hard and I could feel his cock getting bigger inside of me. I had no idea what made me do it but I clenched my ass around his cock when he went all the way in.
"Yeah, tighten that ass, ohhhhh that feels so good."
My ass was so tight he couldn't pull back and I loved feeling his cock buried deep inside of me. I relaxed my ass and he started pounding me harder and faster. I could feel his cock swelling again and I knew something was about to happen and I hoped it was good. He breathing started getting really choppy as he pulled me tighter to him and pounded me as hard as he could.
"Ohhhhhh fuuuccckkkk," he said as he plunged in one more time and held his cock deep inside of me. His cock spasmed and I could feel this soothing juice flow inside of me.
"Ahhhhhhh, that feels so good Bobby," I said as my body went limp. He kept slowly thrusting his cock as he kept filling up my ass with this hot wet soothing juice. Finally he was spent and kissed my neck as I squeezed his cock with my asshole. He ended up getting hard again but that's for another day.
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