what does bottoming feel like for you?

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Unread postby Aalc » 30 October 2021, 15:48

I’m bottom 100%. In general, I am sure bottoming to a good top, well lubed, with each partner respecting each other is probably the highest level of pleasure that someone can feel. Of course, as long as you’re attracted to that. And I say that for sure: some studies measured brain activity levels of straight guys fucking a woman, top gay guys fucking a man, straight woman getting fucked by a man, lesbian woman having sex (both positions), and, gay guys being bottom. The results showed that the levels of brain activity related to pleasure were, in average, significantly higher on bottom gay guys. A point: the study was made with multiple samples of each group, and each person identified themselves with the sexual orientation and sexual position tested (example: they didn’t test a gay men that identifies himself as a top being measured being a bottom). The result basically means that, in average, gay male bottoms (as long as you identify yourself that way) get more sexual pleasure than straights, gay tops and lesbians.

For me, being a bottom is the greatest gift of my homosexuality. It’s indescribable pleasure. I’m into guys with thick dicks (for me, the thickest, the better). Not rly into guys with thin dicks, even if it’s long. In general, in order for bottoming not to be painful (then it’s not good), I usually follow some rules. 1st: cleaning myself inside (enema), because an empty asshole gets dick better. 2nd: lube, lots of lube. 3rd: always removing asshole hair, because that can cause pain. 4th: I try to always control the beginning, by seating on the guy’s dick, controlling the first penetration. That way I “get used” to the guy’s dick and then I let him do every other position. If the guy doesn’t let you to start by seating on him or any other position you can control the beginning, the first penetration might hurt, but just ask for the guy to stop with the dick inside of you, and wait like 20/30 seconds. The pain stops.

About the feeling: for me it starts to feel good when the dock is “opening” the asshole. It just feels awesome. Then it comes the prostate stimulation, which is like you’re being masturbated from inside, but with 3x the pleasure, and the other feelings when deeper are indescribable, it’s like feeling the person you want to be with, being inside of you. It’s awesome!
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby stevie1400 » 31 October 2021, 13:43

It feels very 'intimate' having another guy's private parts inside you. That's the best way I'd describe it.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Peter123777 » 31 October 2021, 15:08

René wrote:For me, it's very physically pleasurable in a way I find hard to describe, but a lot of it is a mental thing about submission, knowing a guy is having his way with me and getting pleasure out of "using" my body I guess. A lot of it is also an emotional connection thing, bonding with a guy, kind of becoming one, a physical expression of love, and knowing I have something of his left inside me afterwards is really nice (and hot) and makes me feel very close to him. :3

It's always been associated with building or being in a relationship for me. I've never had sex with a guy I didn't have feelings for or wasn't or didn't end up in a relationship with. (I only have sex with my husband and our boyfriend and never need to use condoms.)
I suppose it must be a little different in other contexts, but the only time I tried to have what was meant to be casual sex with a guy, we'd already started developing feelings for each other by the time we were actually doing it. :P :keke:



Curious to find out whether other people feel the same way I do after bottoming.
After bottoming, do you also feel empowered in some way? like better physically, emotionally etc?
If so, what it’s like? how long does it lasts? What elements makes those feelings stronger, last longer?

Are you also like topping? and if so, more or less than bottoming?
How’s bottoming is different than topping for you? In strengthening the bond with the partner, etc?
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Simonsub » 31 October 2021, 19:54

The delights of being a bottom

………anticipation as you lie there on your belly or on your hands and knees knowing soon you will have a hard cock inside you; the sounds of him putting a condom on, and the feel of his hand lubing up your hole and teasing it with his fingers………the feel of his hard cock rubbing up and down your crack and……then….at the entrance of your pussy……prising it’s way into you. And the gorgeous feeling as it enters right into you and slides deep as.

To arch back with him deep inside you and slowly fucking you with his arm around your chest holding you back as you kiss together and then his hands grip your hips and your are held for his pleasure as he drives into you getting faster with his thrusts. And the delicious feeling as his hard throbbing cock hits your prostate and you gasp!

Then he pulls out, grabs your legs and swings you over on to your back, lifts your legs and holds them wide apart as, hand-free, he pokes and guides his hard cock into your pussy. Deep at first, then falls over on top of you to put his tongue in your mouth and kiss you deeply, slowly moving his cock in and out, fucking you – that gorgeous animal feeling of him using you, of his power and of his desire and arousal. And then just he uses just the tip of his hard cock on your hole entrance and teases your prostate, in and out hitting your prostate each time and you reach for your cock and enjoy the super sensations wracking your body.

And then he swings you back on your belly again, grabs your hips and pulls you up in a doggy position again and half stands over the top of you crouching with his legs half bent and slides back into you deep again -that gorgeous feeling of his cock back into you again, and his power as he rises and falls on top of you fucking you fast and deeply, enveloping you with his body, feeling his increasing arousal as you keep your arse up high and slump your head and shoulders to the bed loving the sensation of him using your bum, of his cock thrusting into you and him getting faster and harder as his climax gets nearer……and then his moan, his grunting and you feel him ejaculating into you and you push back onto his thrusting ejaculating cock and you milk him for all he can give you

Between the fantastic sensations as above, and the psychology of submitting and being used by a horny top.......being a bottom is gorgeous imo.

Simon :-)
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Bimm » 8 November 2021, 18:58

adda100 wrote:Hi everybody,

I'd be curious to know what you feel when you are getting fucked, especially the most pleasurable feelings. Could you describe them for me?


For me, there is definitely an intense sensual/sexual feeling when I’m getting fucked. There are quite a few men out there that think bottoms want nothing more than rough anal sex but, as most of us know, that is not true. If you are prepared and have lube, (I always need lube, spit doesn’t work for me) it can be a very pleasurable experience.

Half the time, I can cum, hands free, from anal sex. It is one of the best orgasms I can have. I have two favorite positions. Missionary and sitting on him face to face. I love seeing his face when I know he is going to cum and if I haven’t cum already, his orgasm will send me into a beautiful sexual experience as I cum too. If the person I am with hears me say “Oh, Fuck Me!” he knows I am about to cum.

Also, with unprotected sex, there is a nice feeling that you have something of his that is now part of you. However, be VERY CAREFUL with whom you have unprotected sex.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Pey Pey » 14 November 2021, 06:54

It has been such a long time since I was on the top with a partner. I think in the 3 relationships I have had I can count on one hand where I have been on top. I really enjoy being the bottom and feeling my partner penetrate me . It is so exhilarating. Also when he cums inside of me that is the most wonderful feeling in the world.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Bimm » 15 November 2021, 18:15

Peter123777 wrote:Curious to find out whether other people feel the same way I do after bottoming.
After bottoming, do you also feel empowered in some way? like better physically, emotionally etc?
If so, what it’s like? how long does it lasts? What elements makes those feelings stronger, last longer?

Are you also like topping? and if so, more or less than bottoming?
How’s bottoming is different than topping for you? In strengthening the bond with the partner, etc?


I’m not sure that I would call it empowered. I do feel an emotional feeling about being able to please a man to the point of orgasm by letting him into my body. The feel of his manhood in my ass and the increase of intensity of his breathing make me want to please him even more.

I stated in a different post that I know what it feels like to have a blowjob and to put my cock in an ass but feeling one in me, sliding in and out and making him go crazy is what makes me feel wonderful.

I can’t explain but, I get great pleasure out of making a man feel like a man.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby kdi69 » 17 November 2021, 23:58

lufia wrote:For me, it's just pure pleasure. I love it all. I love the feeling when a man is pressing against my hole, and then it suddenly opens up and engulfs his cock. I don't even consider it sex unless I have a cock inside me. I have been with women, and topped for men, but nothing compares to the feeling I get when a man is pounding my hole, hits my spot, and leaves me spraying all over him. I once considered myself bi or versatile, but I became a total bottom the day I had my first buttgasm. The orgasm is so much more intense. Even when I'm masturbating, I'm not fully satisfied anymore without my vibrator. I pretty much stay perpetually horny unless I have something in my ass. It makes me feel like a dirty little slut, and I just can't get enough. I'm addicted to it.


Wow! That is so me... yeah, the prostate-only, no-hands, totally-flaccid, multiple (MULTIPLE!) orgasm is life-changing. The circumstances in which I've been able to achieve it are kind of random (a certain type of partner doing a certain thing that goes just right and suddenly painpainpainpainpressurepressurepressure turns to the first of probably a hundred or more contractions. I will run through my body's store of semen in 10-12 contractions/squirts, and then i'm shooting dry, just contracting over and over for sometimes many minutes beyond when I'm actually ejaculating fluid still.

Nothing like it, and it's what I'm always seeking (despite having only experienced it maybe 8 times, at least 2 of which were experiences I didn't choose or consent to, which boy... complicated), but even just the feeling of being penetrated is so intense, too. When I think of 'sex' or 'having sex' it's always my butt and the top's penis and one-way rutting. That's my sex, how I have sex and think of it (happy to just suck, too, or fool around or whatever... I don't HAVE to have any specific thing, but that's my thing, even so). It just feels... right. Like, purposeful. I know it's a trope in some hypno and like porn to suggest 'you were born to do this,' but it's so resonant and hot to people because it's perfect and fits.

Ultimately, for all the physical sensations, the real feeling of bottoming for me is yielding/submitting/being subsumed by the desires and physicality of another man.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby jaredjoy90 » 23 November 2021, 17:37

There is a point to my story: I was born straight as silly as it sounds then had a mishap with my penis when I was 24 that did nerve damage so I could no longer get erections.

Trying to carry on a relationship with a partner without sexual intercourse is difficult. Women tend to want intercourse in a relationship. Having a few relationships with women not go well after my accident, I went completely celebate for about a year. I missed the touch of other humans. While on holidays I met my ex husband. We fooled around in my hotel room for a bit and I got a bit inebriated and he topped me. There was mild pain, but it was the first time I had a satisfactory sexual encounter in over a year, I was just on the receiving end. No more feeling like a dud. I made someone happy sexually. I got on that high horse and rode it some more. It was nice. Another thing I can point out is that the nerves in my rectum weren't damaged so it was the most sexual stimulation I had as well since. Here we are, 7 years later and I'm still bottoming and loving it.
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Re: what does bottoming feel like for you?

Unread postby Tilt » Today, 09:01

When I was young and thought I was bi I would try to fuck anything that moved, topping exclusively. Somehow, being a bottom didn't come into my life until my thirties when I met a younger guy for a hook-up who declared himself exclusively top. I had been experimenting with plugs so I knew I could be stretched without too much pain. He didn't have the biggest cock in the world, so I decided to give it a go.

As he licked my hole I was aware that it was making me very hard, with drops of precum appearing from my cock. He had me on my back in the muff diving position, sucking my hard cock as well, which at the time I thought was strange for a top only guy.

I sat astride him, lowering myself onto his cock, feeling that jolt when the helmet first makes it past the point of entry. HEAVEN! My cock was still hard, fit to bursting, and he pulled me off whilst I got my ass comfortable. We moved to doggy, which blew my mind as he rutted away. I could feel myself being used and loved it. The intensity of a smaller cock in my virtually virgin pussy was amazing. When he flipped me onto my back he said he was going to fuck me like a girl. I was so full of pleasure and excitement, but with a little bit of power as I knew I was pleasing him.

When he eventually came I was wanking my cock in time with his thrusts, which made me cum harder than I ever had as a top. He pulled his cock out gently, wiped cum from my arse, mixed it with mine on my belly and fed it to me.

After that my arse ached for hours, but it was a nice ache. A reminder of what I had experienced. It gave me a warm feeling inside. I never fucked another woman after that, I knew this was my calling. I've topped guys a few times but being a gay bottom is my preferred identity. The expectancy of waiting for a cock to make that first entrance is so exciting. It's a beautiful experience.
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