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What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby mioku321 » 18 December 2019, 19:13

Everyone has their own preferences but I'm curious what people prefer. Deep throat, suction of lips, swallowing, enthusiasm, noises? Are there aspects you prefer? Or are there techniques and aspects you don't like at all?
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Eryx » 19 December 2019, 14:47

What gets me going the most is when the guy uses a hand to twist around the shaft while sucking on the head.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 19 December 2019, 15:18

A good blowjob is just a good handjob with a lot of mouth. Deepthroating is the most overrated, works for camera but not for actual enjoyment, porno-invented bullshit.

Also, I dunno how others feel, but often find myself thinking “it’s not made of glass, you can grip it a little firmer”
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 19 December 2019, 16:19

Deepthroating is more for the guy giving it. Sort of a conquest thing. And it does actually turn some guys on when you do it to them.

What helps most is when the guy performing the act is not only good at it but also really enjoys it. But not fake. Somehow the ones that enjoy doing it seem to be good at it as well.

But if I have anything to add, it helps to also remember those two little things that dangle at the base. They like attention too.

Jeez, and do I really have to point out there is a reason they call it "sucking dick"...

Oh, dear God, No Teeth!!!!
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Midlifewotsit » 19 December 2019, 20:57

I wonder if I'm the only one who dislikes receiving a blow job? Sucking dick though is a different matter entirely :)
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby MALayhee700 » 21 December 2019, 19:31

I prefer giving rather than receiving, not that receiving is bad, its just that I'm too sensitive and I make noises and can't keep a poker face while having sex. Its really east stuff, you cover your teeth with your tongue and build up saliva and work the shaft. If you really want your guy to get attached to you, just saliva fill your mouth, place your mouth on his penis head and swish around gently, every guy I blew gave me a good pounding as a reward.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 21 December 2019, 20:07

MALayhee700 wrote:I prefer giving rather than receiving, not that receiving is bad, its just that I'm too sensitive and I make noises and can't keep a poker face while having sex. Its really east stuff, you cover your teeth with your tongue and build up saliva and work the shaft. If you really want your guy to get attached to you, just saliva fill your mouth, place your mouth on his penis head and swish around gently, every guy I blew gave me a good pounding as a reward.

What manner of surgery did you need to have done to allow yourself to cover all of your teeth with your tongue?
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby MALayhee700 » 21 December 2019, 20:24

Marmaduke wrote:
MALayhee700 wrote:I prefer giving rather than receiving, not that receiving is bad, its just that I'm too sensitive and I make noises and can't keep a poker face while having sex. Its really east stuff, you cover your teeth with your tongue and build up saliva and work the shaft. If you really want your guy to get attached to you, just saliva fill your mouth, place your mouth on his penis head and swish around gently, every guy I blew gave me a good pounding as a reward.

What manner of surgery did you need to have done to allow yourself to cover all of your teeth with your tongue?


You just lay your tongue over the bottom half of your teeth. You scrape foreskin when sucking? I feel bad for the guy you're blowing.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 21 December 2019, 20:25

MALayhee700 wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
MALayhee700 wrote:I prefer giving rather than receiving, not that receiving is bad, its just that I'm too sensitive and I make noises and can't keep a poker face while having sex. Its really east stuff, you cover your teeth with your tongue and build up saliva and work the shaft. If you really want your guy to get attached to you, just saliva fill your mouth, place your mouth on his penis head and swish around gently, every guy I blew gave me a good pounding as a reward.

What manner of surgery did you need to have done to allow yourself to cover all of your teeth with your tongue?


You just lay your tongue over the bottom half of your teeth. You scrape foreskin when sucking? I feel bad for the guy you're blowing.

What about your top teeth? They’re the ones that are gonna catch if any.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby MALayhee700 » 21 December 2019, 21:46

Marmaduke wrote:
MALayhee700 wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
MALayhee700 wrote:I prefer giving rather than receiving, not that receiving is bad, its just that I'm too sensitive and I make noises and can't keep a poker face while having sex. Its really east stuff, you cover your teeth with your tongue and build up saliva and work the shaft. If you really want your guy to get attached to you, just saliva fill your mouth, place your mouth on his penis head and swish around gently, every guy I blew gave me a good pounding as a reward.

What manner of surgery did you need to have done to allow yourself to cover all of your teeth with your tongue?


You just lay your tongue over the bottom half of your teeth. You scrape foreskin when sucking? I feel bad for the guy you're blowing.

What about your top teeth? They’re the ones that are gonna catch if any.


Use your top lip to cover your mouth. Do I need to explain simple stuff?
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 21 December 2019, 21:49

MALayhee700 wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
MALayhee700 wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
MALayhee700 wrote:I prefer giving rather than receiving, not that receiving is bad, its just that I'm too sensitive and I make noises and can't keep a poker face while having sex. Its really east stuff, you cover your teeth with your tongue and build up saliva and work the shaft. If you really want your guy to get attached to you, just saliva fill your mouth, place your mouth on his penis head and swish around gently, every guy I blew gave me a good pounding as a reward.

What manner of surgery did you need to have done to allow yourself to cover all of your teeth with your tongue?


You just lay your tongue over the bottom half of your teeth. You scrape foreskin when sucking? I feel bad for the guy you're blowing.

What about your top teeth? They’re the ones that are gonna catch if any.


Use your top lip to cover your mouth. Do I need to explain simple stuff?

Do you really have such inaccurate jaw control? I feel like I’m doing a perfectly acceptable job whilst not looking like I have a severe psychotic disorder.

For reals though, are you actually doing that or have you just never sucked a dick and are making shit up?
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby MALayhee700 » 21 December 2019, 21:58

I fail to see how I blow people makes me a troll?
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 21 December 2019, 21:59

MALayhee700 wrote:I fail to see how I blow people makes me a troll?

I didn’t say you were a troll? I suggested you were a liar.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Willie » 26 December 2019, 03:04

I discovered a little too late that no matter how good and how long its been sucked, when the climax is (or should be) near, it should be stroked by hand to bring it off with maximum pleasure!
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 26 December 2019, 03:57

Possibly the interruption of the physical act with a “like this daddy?” phrase sprinkled here and there.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby NobodySpecial » 26 December 2019, 20:51

I suppose I would say good blow jobs are simply those where the sucker is just preparing you for the main course -- letting you have his ass.

However, I'm sure that isn't what you wanted to hear. Oral can be very pleasant, but in all my decades of m2m encounters, I cannot recall a single time I actually got an orgasm from oral sex.

I can say a few things that are less desirable about it. I do NOT like teeth. I also do not like when they start to suck your head, and jack your shaft. If I wanted a hand job, I could do a much better job myself. I guess I could understand if I were hung like a horse, but when your cock is average, I don't see why they cannot take it to the base. Sucking only the head (or to the circumsized line) always struck me as someone who is very inexperienced. A problem with suck jackers is that if they jack you way to long, you can get sore, and then their saliva burns. Most of my experiences with oral sex, ended up where they wanted to jack off in their mouth. Sure, I could do that, but it seemed to defeat the purpose of it being "oral" sex.

Some suckers also just want to focus on your cock. They have no intention of having their hands roam over your body while they are sucking you. It kind of makes it like sticking your cock in a vacuum cleaner and expecting that to get you off. (Who wants a hicky on their cock?)

So I guess I'm back to my original premise. Oral sex as part of foreplay, can be wonderful if it leads to you fucking his ass and kissing his mouth. By it self, oral is VERY hot on screen, but just simply isn't orgasmic for me. (Perhaps if I could have gone two weeks without getting off, it might have been different. However, the one time I tried to go without sex for 3 or 4 days, and I was climbing the wall and my balls were aching so much that I just had to go find someone to fuck.)
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby JohnnyJingles » 31 December 2019, 09:51

What makes a good blowjob?

From my point of view, I'd have to say when the whole is greater than the sum of it's parts.

I've had a few times where after I started blowing a guy when I just wanted to stop and I have done exactly that. Sometimes, I just finish him and let it go. There was no connection, that was the problem.

The better the connection between people having sex, the better the sex will be. It applies to blowjobs

Connection can mean love, lust or both. I've given blowjobs in bookstores that have been fabulous for both of us, and never seen the guy again. We both had needs we could satisfy for each other, that was the connection. So there is a dance or a balance between satisfying the others needs, while they satisfy yours. Maybe he doesn't give a fuck about your needs and all he wants is to use your mouth as a cum dump. I've been in that situation and loved it. I wanted to be used, that was the connection. I was in love with Allen and I used my mouth to show him love. Love was the connection. Connections don't have 100% one way or the other. They just have to be strong enough. Ultimately, sex is a fucking mystery.

This is only my point of view.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby Severelius » 1 January 2020, 18:43

Commitment and enthusiasm.

I've heard so many complaints from guys I've known and/or sucked off that sometimes it feels like the person doing it is only doing it begrudgingly out of some sense of obligation rather than genuinely enjoying what they're doing.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 2 January 2020, 18:26

Severelius wrote:Commitment and enthusiasm.

I've heard so many complaints from guys I've known and/or sucked off that sometimes it feels like the person doing it is only doing it begrudgingly out of some sense of obligation rather than genuinely enjoying what they're doing.


To add to that, the commitment and enthusiasm needs to be from both parties involved.
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Re: What makes a good blowjob?

Unread postby uncut7in » 14 January 2020, 21:56

I like a guy who is gentle rather than rough with my cock. Like him to roll my foreskin back with his lips, and to run his tongue over my helmet. The lick up and down my shaft, before taking just the helmet in his mouth. Then he can deep-throat me.
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