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What's your stance on sleeping with friends?

Unread postby ShutUpAndBeHappy » 3 January 2021, 11:54

A lot of guys seem to be down to have a good time. I think I'm into it and this may be the norm in some friendships. I've had hookups become friends, but the friends I've slept with have usually not remained close friends after.

What are your thoughts?
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Re: What's your stance on sleeping with friends?

Unread postby PanicP » 3 January 2021, 15:47

Personally, I’m not for it.
If you value the friendship you have, then I feel you shouldn’t get involved sexually. Once you do, the dynamic changes and jealously can set in very quickly.
I would love to hook up with some of my friends because they are HOT. But I’d rather have their friendship over risking it for pleasure.
Not sure if that was the answer you were looking for.
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Re: What's your stance on sleeping with friends?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 3 January 2021, 16:58

Don’t fuck friends or colleagues. Super easy rule to live by, avoids irreparably damaging pre-existing relationships.
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Re: What's your stance on sleeping with friends?

Unread postby KingJack » 3 January 2021, 23:23

I was always for it. Sometimes it worked out and other times it didn't, just like any relationship. Growing up (7 to 18), all my sexual contact (or just touching before puberty) was with friends or cousins when i was younger.

After 18 I was always open to it with guy friends i knew were gay or bi. But I also hooked up with strangers.
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Re: What's your stance on sleeping with friends?

Unread postby Magic J » 3 January 2021, 23:47

Me, sober: No. Do not do this.

Me, 3am, after two pints of vodka: Yes. All of the yes.

Me, now: Full of regret.

Repeat until friendless.
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Re: What's your stance on sleeping with friends?

Unread postby OutsideIn » 4 January 2021, 01:44

ShutUpAndBeHappy wrote:but the friends I've slept with have usually not remained close friends after.

Did you answer your own question?

It's not a one-size-fits-all situation. It depends on the personalities of those involved. Some people can keep sex and friendship separate, and some people can't.
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