What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

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What sexual role do you normally take during sex?

Bottom/submissive
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Versatile
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Top/dominant
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby René » 25 March 2020, 11:50

rogonandi wrote:
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rogonandi wrote:Rene likes to bottom? That's hot! :D

Why

Why do you think? I may not be anyone’s first choice (even the husband’s) but I’m not dead. :P

Haha, thanks :P

Anyway, it has recently been confirmed that I am indeed a total bottom, regardless of what guy I'm with. :P

I don't understand how topping can be so enjoyable for some guys yet do nothing at all for me. It also makes me wonder what would happen if I was straight. Would I have to consider myself asexual? That's a weird thought because as a gay guy at this point, I could be considered hypersexual. I get hard all the time, think about sex all the time and don't need to be "in the mood" or whatever; if I'm intimate with a guy I'll suck him off or pretty much do whatever he wants me to anytime :lol:
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 25 March 2020, 11:55

René wrote:
rogonandi wrote:
Eryx wrote:
rogonandi wrote:Rene likes to bottom? That's hot! :D

Why

Why do you think? I may not be anyone’s first choice (even the husband’s) but I’m not dead. :P

Haha, thanks :P

Anyway, it has recently been confirmed that I am indeed a total bottom, regardless of what guy I'm with. :P

I don't understand how topping can be so enjoyable for some guys yet do nothing at all for me. It also makes me wonder what would happen if I was straight. Would I have to consider myself asexual? That's a weird thought because as a gay guy at this point, I could be considered hypersexual. I get hard all the time, think about sex all the time and don't need to be "in the mood" or whatever; if I'm intimate with a guy I'll suck him off or pretty much do whatever he wants me to anytime :lol:

What about if Brenden wakes up one morning feeling all bottomy and you need to step up to the plate and get the job done?
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby Brenden » 25 March 2020, 12:00

Marmaduke wrote:What about if Brenden wakes up one morning feeling all bottomy and you need to step up to the plate and get the job done?

I don't tend to wake up drunk. That's more a late evening thing.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby René » 25 March 2020, 12:06

Marmaduke wrote:What about if Brenden wakes up one morning feeling all bottomy and you need to step up to the plate and get the job done?

I could probably make something work, but enjoying it would be an altogether different matter. I'd probably enjoy the part where it makes him feel good... but I don't derive any physical pleasure from topping and I can never cum while inside someone.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 25 March 2020, 12:09

Yeah, I used to be pretty much the same as that once upon a time. But at least Brenden knows that should he get on the drink one day and end it with an unquenchable thirst for a brutal dicking down, you’re there for him. Selflessly. That’s what matters.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby René » 25 March 2020, 12:29

Thing is, I've tried topping with two guys now but unless I'm wearing a condom, it physically hurts. I guess it pulls at my frenulum or something. Why is that the case for me but not others? Am I just physiologically incompatible with topping? :runaway:
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 25 March 2020, 12:44

René wrote:Thing is, I've tried topping with two guys now but unless I'm wearing a condom, it physically hurts. I guess it pulls at my frenulum or something. Why is that the case for me but not others? Am I just physiologically incompatible with topping? :runaway:

Don’t worry, I’m absolutely in agreement with you. It doesn’t matter how drunk and aggressive Brenden becomes, he needs to accept a degree of compromise. A condom seems entirely reasonable. Don’t let him bully you into engaging in sexual practices that discomfort you.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 25 March 2020, 12:46

Well, unless this falls into the pantheon of sexual practices which you find enticing despite knowing they cause a degree of discomfort.

Whatever tickles, or indeed acutely pains, your pickle.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby René » 25 March 2020, 12:48

:lol: You know me well!
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby DY4real » 4 April 2020, 02:01

I am 100% bottom! I love it and I cum so hard and so much during it all! I have a big butt so it was made for big dick!
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby str8bttm » 8 February 2021, 11:08

Bottom unless the person has a nice juicy fat ass
Top for a nice ass male, female or trans, bottom for any cock.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby weedan » 9 February 2021, 19:04

Bottom here. I have topped a few times but it's far out weighted by the times I have been bottom.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby Ellelynn » 11 February 2021, 08:32

passive and bottom because I enjoy cock
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby lufia » 12 February 2021, 15:09

I consider myself versatile, but I definitely prefer to bottom. I don't mind topping occasionally for the right guy, but I could definitely never be in a long term relationship with a full or majority bottom. I'm too much of an anal slut. I would go insane if I had to top all of the time. For me, topping takes all of the fun out of being with a guy.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby lufia » 12 February 2021, 15:19

[quote="NobodySpecial"]
Bottoms deserve so much respect for their role in sex. In some ways it is the more masculine role because they sometimes sacrifice their own orgasm to make sure the other man gets his.



I've never sacrificed my orgasm. Unless a guy is tiny or has no idea what he is doing, I'm usually spraying all over his chest long before he finishes. If the guy is good, and feelings are involved, I can cum without even touching my cock. I feel sorry for guys that can't have a buttgasm. There is nothing like it!
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby lufia » 12 February 2021, 15:32

drakos wrote:Sex is great. Drunk sex is great, too. But many gays, especially in their youth, abuse alcohol to relax and step over their internal limitations. Learn to do it sober.Many people believe that gay people are necessarily engaged in anal sex every day. As the mini-survey conducted by the medical organization Bespoke Surgical showed, this is not the case.


I've read that too, but in my experience, it isn't true. If I just want to jack off, then I can do that by myself. I am a total anal slut. If I'm not getting fucked, then I will just keep my clothes on. For me, sex without being penetrated is just masturbation. I don't even consider it sex. It doesn't do anything for me. Of course I can't have anal every day, so I'll just keep my clothes on until I can. Going a couple of days without an orgasm makes anal so much more enjoyable when it does happen. It is so much more intense when I am so horny that I can't take it anymore, and I just end up ripping his clothes off and riding him until we're both spent.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby oakjeff » 21 February 2021, 05:57

I'm a bottom but, for me, that does not mean I am submissive.
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Re: What sexual role do you usually take during sex?

Unread postby Twilight66 » 26 February 2021, 05:35

As primarily straight, I almost always take the dominant role with women during sex. However, I have discovered that I really enjoy playing the submissive role with a guy with either oral or anal. I have a powerful job and an definitely a Type A personality, but for whatever I really get turned on playing the opposite role with a guy; and enjoy the feeling of powerlessness and being taken by him. Also, as at my age sometimes having difficulty getting it up, I don't have to have 'performance anxiety' playing this role.
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