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Unread postby Koftruecross » 17 January 2019, 22:36

If a met guy in the gay bar I would tell him he is cute. If he blushed it was the biggest turn ON for me. If he said, "I know I'm cute and I have a big dick as well." It was an instant TURN Off For me. This worked almost all the time. Except for guys like Corey who could blush on cue. They could have been academy award winning actors. I mean how is that possible to blush on cue and voluntarily cause their face to turn red? How could they know that was a turn on for me? I guess modesty is a turn on for me.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby BlackBoi666 » 17 January 2019, 23:45

men with big butts, wearing tight pants. I have the urge to grope them, and spank them. Especially the feminine ones.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 18 January 2019, 04:29

Actually, for my case, that is pretty difficult to say. As I have to know someone attractive for quite some months or years ( as in demi-sexual) and it would presuppose the dude also wanting to get to know me closer. I'm not a very sexual person though. :shrug:

Traits that may attract romantically are a mixture of looks, clothes & gear, their sports hobbies, natural Twink masculinity, in shape body and a certain sane, sweet, bright and level-headed "alpha leader" type.
Ginger and strawberry blond, freckle faced skinny surfer or skateboarder dudes, pretty well. Long haired, cap wearing, boombass music playing and recreational pot smoking. ( helps with neuropathy related pain he he)
They would own a bus/pickup truck or boat, and the main trait is, that they don't exist anywhere. :lol:

It's complicated. I'm out of the age fit possibility and I can't ever picture myself in the Daddy fetish class.
Theoretically, it was more of a romantic Bromance fashion fantasy, at the most.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Koftruecross » 18 January 2019, 04:34

I have always been attracted to the twinks. Although I did have one very loving bear. And I had one very masculine guy that bought a crumbling, dilapidated mansion in order to fulfill his Lord of the Manor fantasy. He even had one dutiful servant.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 18 January 2019, 17:17

Does anyone else feel that the cat picture is reminiscent of blackface art?
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Yeauxleaux » 19 January 2019, 01:26

- Facial/body hair (I'm a high key trichophile)
- Deep dark brown eyes
- A toned bubble butt
- That "V" shaped toned torso/back
- Tight clothes on a nice body
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 19 January 2019, 03:00

A guy who is fit/tone. Neck to toe. What's up top is always the interesting part in the end.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Charliepuckeri » 19 January 2019, 04:24

Being treated like a female whore being humiliated and abused verbally and physically
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby rogonandi » 19 January 2019, 11:56

Men who don’t creep me out paying attention to me, even if it’s basic human common courtesy.
People love to follow fools; they don't feel so alone then.

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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby BlackBoi666 » 19 January 2019, 23:05

Charliepuckeri wrote:Being treated like a female whore being humiliated and abused verbally and physically

sexy :heart: :heart: :heart:
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Shaved-Nudist » 21 January 2019, 17:14

Seeing a guy that has a shaved body like mine
Try living nude!
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Seattlepet_sissy » 26 January 2019, 08:25

Dominant older men. Men that can pick me up and put there tounge down my throat then tie me up to use. I love kinky men and love bondage play. But love a guy that will fully feminize me before having his way with me before cuddling and letting me taste him all over.
I do love a guy that is very controlling . :heart:
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Floyd01 » 26 January 2019, 09:34

only really get turned on by the thought of giving a guy a bj, he has to be sat down on a couch, me kneeling down in between his legs, that does it for me x
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby explorers » 27 January 2019, 23:33

Last year I moved into a new flat and my downstairs neighbor is married and they have a baby. He asked me when I moved in if it was just me in the flat or if I had a wife or girlfriend and I said no, I’m single and gay. He has my number from that day because I was doing renovations and I told him to text me if the noise is too much and they are home. He recently started texting, first complaining about another neighbours rubbish and then started being sexual, telling me that he is horny when he is hungover. Or horny when his wife is away. To tease I texted back and said maybe I could help. He text back asking how with a grinning emoji and I said I had paracetamol.

Then he knocks on the door and I answer and he is wearing tracksuit bottoms, no top on, chiselled pecs and 6 pack, and I can see through he’s pants he has a massive erection on.

He says he has such a bad hangover and the wife is not speaking to him cause he got so drunk and came home so late that she left him on his own for the day and asks again if I can do anything so I say yeah I’ll go get the paracetamol. He follows me into the kitchen and when I turn around with the paracetamol I see he has pulled down his tracksuit bottoms so that the base of his cock is showing. He then asks for a glass of water, and takes two paracetamol. He tells me that he took extacy the night before and that it has given him an erection al morning and points to his cock and says, see. Then he takes his cock out in his hand and asks if that happens me. And asks then if I would suck his cock cause he was always curious to know if I guy would know how do to it better.
I was so turned ned on that I did and then he pulled down my shorts and he fucked me without a condom.
As soon as he came, it’s like he remember who he was again, got really angry and told me he would slit my fucking throat if I ever told anyone or ruined his life.
Few weeks later then he texts again, saying he couldn’t believe how good anal sex was and told ms his wife was taking the baby for a checkup in the morning and told me to leave the door open for him at exactly 8.10 and be on all fours on the bed. So I did....my heart was racing when I heard him push the door open. He fucked like he was angry, pulling my hair slapping me across the face, across my ass.
Then as soon as he cums again be gets pissed off and leaves being really rude. We barely speak....but he texts every few weeks or maybe even months and we fuck. Problem is I feel really guilty but it really turns me on so much and I feel pathetic for that. Is there something psychologically missing in me that I wank off to the thoughts of that and get turned on by the fact that he keeps coming back for it?
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Eryx » 28 January 2019, 00:16

Not really, it's just a fantasy. But if you don't like how he treats you after, maybe you should quit it and just find someone more stable.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby explorers » 28 January 2019, 10:28

Yeah I have stopped and he texted me saying not to text him again that he is deleting my number cause it’s too much of a risk if anyone found out. Then one night he manages to pick the lock on my door and break into the flat when I was asleep and we started fucking. Always rough sex. It turns me on a lot. Thing is the thrill of this means I’ve less interest in regular dating and something more stable, even though I know he has crossed the line. He’s also involved somehow in a criminal gang, so don’t think he is kidding about slitting my throat if I ever told anyone.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Shaved-Nudist » 28 January 2019, 15:11

A guy that has a well shaped body and a longer that average penis.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby Stardust » 28 January 2019, 15:29

Normality turns me on. Much of this thread is enough to turn me off for good.

He’s also involved somehow in a criminal gang, so don’t think he is kidding about slitting my throat if I ever told anyone.

Tell the police, ASAP. He sounds like a psychopath.
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Re: What turns you ON sexually?

Unread postby PopTart » 28 January 2019, 16:09

Stardust wrote:Tell the police, ASAP. He sounds like a psychopath.

There's excitement and then there's dicing with death!

I'd also suggest moving home, if the guy is willing to break into your house and all but force himself on you, that's not the sign of healthy behaviour.

For now, you might be happy to go with it, but should that change, he has demonstrated that he has no objection to breaking in and raping you. Might seem a fun fantasy, but i suspect the reality is quite something else.
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