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Whats the best way to to about this experience?

Unread postby IntoTheFray » 28 August 2021, 01:53

Hi all. I am a young middle aged man who has had women my whole life but in recent years have fooled around with a few men. Nothing crazy just jerking off and blow jobs.

However i want to be a 3rd person to a strong couple of gay men, (strong meaning they have been in a real relationship but want to introduce a 3rd partner i.e. me). This scenario is my preferred scenario but if i can't find that then i want to be a 3rd person among two gay men.

My issue however is safety and pleasure. I dont want to use condoms and i want to be bred and swallow their loads and eat their hole out i.e. no holds barred sexual escapade.

There is no way i am going to just bareback anyone even though it is obviously very easy to hook up and have sex today.

I dont want to worry about anything or hold back at all.

SO, i want to propose to the couple that where ever we meet like say in another city i would come there and stay at a hotel until all 3 of us go get an STD test and share our results.

If we are compatible and all 3 of us are clean then we can do this 100%.

How do you think i can go about first finding a couple and communicating this to them?

Thanks!
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Re: Whats the best way to to about this experience?

Unread postby IntoTheFray » 30 August 2021, 06:01

Nobody? Really?

Maybe i am not clear enough as to what it is i would like to do and more importantly WHY i want to go about it in the manner of which I described.

Basically I desire to have worry free hardcore sex with a steady and loving couple.... On ONE condition strictly and only.... all 3 of us must get STD tested at the same clinic on the same day and time. When finished we then share our results to each other 100% out in the open.

If we all come up clean then I would REALLY, REALLY like to get together that afternoon or evening and participate in no holds barred hardcore sex.

What advice can any of you guys give me regarding seeking and finding a couple to propose this to?

For example craigslist is gone so what is the next craigslists? Or App? Or a website that someone has experience with and can recommend?

Thanks all!
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Re: Whats the best way to to about this experience?

Unread postby PopTart » 30 August 2021, 09:14

Grindr probably.

I don't know where you live. But in the UK you can get at home STI test kits. You'll be emailed a link with your test results, that can also be shared with others, so they can see too. Maybe something lile that would be easier to arrange, than physically attending a clinic.
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Re: Whats the best way to to about this experience?

Unread postby IntoTheFray » 31 August 2021, 01:40

Have you ever personally used grindr? If so, is it like alot of other meet up/date sites where it is filled with fake profiles and spam?
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Re: Whats the best way to to about this experience?

Unread postby Petite » 3 September 2021, 09:47

Hey there I'm a bottom and met a few guys from grindr. To your question if you're going all in with swallowing their cum and eating them out, there's no test which will guarantee full safety. Not even most exhaustive STI tests can pick up everything. So you just have to accept some risk and take a leap of faith.
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