Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

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Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby Twinkboy69 » 24 July 2022, 22:20

I’ve been on vacation with family this week and I’ve been in a really slutty mood so of course I downloaded Grindr on my phone. I feel like I’ve been putting myself out there with plenty of pics, info, and a lot of motivation to please some men but I haven’t sucked or gotten fucked by a single dick all week. It’s kind of disappointing :/ has anyone else experienced a lot of flakiness in the gay community especially on Grindr? I’m just sick of being stood up and want to find fun and safe sexual encounters with men. Any advice out there or places to look and cruise for men who know what they want?

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A horny twink who is craving some dick and cum
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby weedan » 24 July 2022, 22:33

I have never used Grindr but I have found quite a few guys online to be flaky, I think a lot of them are married or attached and get off on the thought and thrill of it all.
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby Twinkboy69 » 24 July 2022, 22:44

weedan wrote:I have never used Grindr but I have found quite a few guys online to be flaky, I think a lot of them are married or attached and get off on the thought and thrill of it all.


Yeah that’s so true. I’m basically begging to be fucked and I’m actually really cute so these guys are totally missing out. If anyone wants to see any of my nude pics just message me, I love to share and trade photos. 8” cut cock and a tight little bubble butt in case anyone was curious 😈
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby weedan » 24 July 2022, 22:51

Lol i have lots count of the amount times I have been so horny and unable to find a guy willing to fuck me and not just "talk about it first and meet up later"
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby Twinkboy69 » 25 July 2022, 06:25

I ended up meeting a younger guy across town and gave him a blowjob in his car. I don’t think he had ever had an orgasm like I gave him and he came so much it was a great way to end the night. Hopefully I have some more hot encounters, the same guy said he can host tomorrow afternoon too!
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby stevie1400 » 25 July 2022, 16:41

I think sometimes guys are interested in sex, but don't like anonymous encounters, or prefer to gauge how serious someone actually is about meeting up. Unlike some people, I very rarely arrange to meet people for sex or dates, but when I do, I always find it quite demoralising to take time out of your day (possibly several hours) to travel somewhere (possibly at significant expense), and sit around in the pouring rain for ages to wait for someone who never turns up.

You might be serious about turning up, but the guy you are chatting to might have been stood up so many times that he really has no idea whether you are serious or not!
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby Twinkboy69 » 25 July 2022, 19:06

I like the different perspective on it and I can definitely agree. I’m not too upset, I was able to find a cute guy and we had a good night together. Really I just want to find a serious top who knows what he’s doing.
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby Twinkboy69 » 25 July 2022, 21:35

Update: just had one of my best bottoming experiences with a huge black cock. I think I’m addicted lol
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby stevie1400 » 25 July 2022, 22:46

Mmm, I wouldn't mind a bit of bottoming myself now :)
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Re: Why are gay men so flaky sometimes?

Unread postby Twinkboy69 » 25 July 2022, 22:51

I’m going back to his house after dinner for round 2. Once you go black you’re not going to want to go back lol I’m in love with bottoming
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