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Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby Stroker54 » 22 July 2019, 18:37

My experience is very limited, so why do you love to bottom? Is it simply that it feels great? Are you driven to bottom? IE Very strong urge to be bred. Can you cum from being fucked without touching your dick? Or is it about being submissive? The power exchange, to give yourself to another man, to satisfy his needs? Please tell me what you have learned about yourself from bottoming.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby Eryx » 22 July 2019, 19:41

It just feels good, and I don't feel attracted to butts. Cumming from just being fucked is totally possible, but from personal experience everything just has to be right for it to happen. From what I can remember, it probably happened like three times. The power thing isn't really something that goes through my mind, it's just the position I like to be in more during sex. In fact, sometimes I am more dominant in deciding how we're going to do it, and sometimes I just like to be led. I don't think the whole "satisfy his needs" thing matters much to be because I usually get pretty annoyed when the top doesn't help me cum. Sex is for everyone to enjoy, not just the top.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 22 July 2019, 21:11

Eryx wrote:Sex is for everyone to enjoy, not just the top.

*Plays James Brown’s “It’s a Man’s Man’s Man’s World” but changes “man” to “top.”*
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby Yeauxleaux » 22 July 2019, 21:12

I think the whole "satisfy the needs" of your partner is more nuanced, and not one-sided. A man who is fucking either another man or a woman is probably the one doing most of the "work" during sex if you will. If he's not doing a great job, then the "needs" of the bottom/woman are certainly not being met.

I've always viewed it that way as well, I've never got this mentality where it's about how the submissive is of service to the dominant. It's actually the other way around in the typical sex dynamic, I feel like it's the "submissive" who is being done-to and served in a way. However, as Eryx said the bottom (or woman in a straight pair) can be dominant and that does flip it on its head.

Anyway I just like the feeling of being fucked.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby Stroker54 » 23 July 2019, 00:47

Thanks for your insights! I guess I missed the mark with "to satisfy his needs". I agree with Yeauxleaux and Eryx that the sexual relationship is a give and take. While the Top is having his fun, he also has the responsibility to satisfy the bottom just as in a hetrosexual relationship. I hope more bottoms or versatile guys will chime in with their experiences.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby PopTart » 23 July 2019, 00:59

I'm vers, so I have an opinion coming and going, so to speak.

I top most of the time, but when I do bottom, it's usually a more cerebral experience. I often find myself being aroused in a different way, there is an element of knowing I have another mans cock in me, it helps to know, what that feels like for him too, I can almost imagine how he feels inside me. That adds a different dimension to the sex.

Then I appreciate that I'm giving the guy a place to bury his dick and that's exciting.

I think, put simply, with bottoming, theres alot more going on up top, if you catch my drift.

While topping, while being physically demanding at times, can also be, mentally, less engaging perhaps?
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 23 July 2019, 01:47

Jesus. Bottoms really are women.
Blow: "Nowadays even Liam can release an album of his screechy vocals and it'll probably go #1..."
Ramzus: I can admit that I'm horny just about 24/7
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby rogonandi » 23 July 2019, 07:30

I don’t often bottom but when I do it’s because I want to have an orgasm with an extra element to it...like when I feel like having chocolate syrup on my ice cream. :D
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby PopTart » 23 July 2019, 10:42

poolerboy0077 wrote:Jesus. Bottoms really are women.

:P Does that make you straight? :confused:
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 23 July 2019, 17:29

rogonandi wrote:because I want to have an orgasm with an extra element to it...like when I feel like having chocolate syrup

Oh dear god please stop. :shake:
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby Stroker54 » 23 July 2019, 17:33

PopTart wrote:I'm vers, so I have an opinion coming and going, so to speak.

I top most of the time, but when I do bottom, it's usually a more cerebral experience. I often find myself being aroused in a different way, there is an element of knowing I have another mans cock in me, it helps to know, what that feels like for him too, I can almost imagine how he feels inside me. That adds a different dimension to the sex.

Then I appreciate that I'm giving the guy a place to bury his dick and that's exciting.

I think, put simply, with bottoming, theres alot more going on up top, if you catch my drift.

While topping, while being physically demanding at times, can also be, mentally, less engaging perhaps?


I agree, as a bisexual male when I am loving my wife or topping a FWB as I approach my climax it is nearly all animal instinct. While the times I have bottomed, I had time to reflect and enjoy the experience as it is happening. Plus, I can make slight adjustments to my body position to enhance the pleasure.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby rogonandi » 24 July 2019, 06:03

poolerboy0077 wrote:
rogonandi wrote:because I want to have an orgasm with an extra element to it...like when I feel like having chocolate syrup

Oh dear god please stop. :shake:


You're the one thinking about it that way! :lol:
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby PeterNS » 12 May 2021, 01:03

I like giving myself to a man I love. It just feels great.
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Unread postby glückspilz » 20 May 2021, 18:06

It's that moment, when his dick enters my hole and the anus is changing from widen to engulf that strong and hard meat, feeling him as close to me as possible while starting to give up the control.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby DY4real » 31 May 2021, 08:31

For me i absolutely love being a bottom. Honestly nothing gets me harder than feeling another man stretch my hole wide and deep. I have cam hands free 2times the most intense feeling ever. Nothing satisfies me more than bottoming for a big dick top. And i know my booty always makes them cum sometimes to fast
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby peiguy » 3 June 2021, 12:35

I enjoy the sweet surrender, being passive, making my top's pleasure the priority. I enjoy the stimulation of my prostate, getting close, but not quite.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby blondambition » 3 June 2021, 17:41

I love being submissive to another guy. I feels great also.
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby Ballparkdogg » 9 June 2021, 23:33

I have bottomed. I love to feel his cock in me. I am very tight but love how that feels as long as it is a slow grind
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Re: Why do you love bottoming?

Unread postby lufia » 10 June 2021, 21:56

For me, I just love anal. I discovered anal pleasure when I was 13 years old, and just starting randomly fingering myself. Since then, I have been addicted to it. When I get the urge, I can't be satisfied without it. I can fuck or jack off all day long and still be horny until I bottom or pull out the vibrator. It just feels amazing. Buttgasms are so much better than regular orgasms, and fortunately they come pretty easily for me. When I'm having sex, I don't even care if the guy touches my cock. I certainly don't. I refuse to jack off during sex.
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Getting reamed feels great then and later too.

Unread postby WillyVanilly » 12 June 2021, 01:25

When getting bottomed by a top who knows what he's doing (forceful but without undue pain or irritation) , not only can you enjoy the direct pleasure to the prostate and the rectum, but often I could feel an nice warm tingly sensation the next day. A good pounding is the gift that keeps on giving . Always practice safe sex and speak up if you need the topman to do it differently.
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