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Unread postby orii » 14 January 2020, 21:04

Good evening from warm Sierra Leone.
I'm hoping someone here may be able to help me answer a question I've been dying to ask someone but haven't been able to due to my country being extremely weird about gay sex.
A couple months ago, I had sex with a guy that had a big long dick. He was really rough and during sex, I experienced a deep and very intense sexual pleasure where I couldn't control the urge to push out, and as I did so, I found myself peeing. It came in short intense bursts where I peed for like 3 seconds and relaxed. After every pee stream, it became slightly painful to take the dick so I had to constantly slow down. I was overjoyed with it and kept trying to recreate the experience afterwards. I was successful many times.
However, due to the fact that I feel intense pressure in my bladder and I cannot control the urge to pee while being fucked in the ass, I'm worried this may be a health problem and I'm not sure. If anyone's experienced something like this or knows what it is, I would deeply appreciate it if you could maybe help me explain this.

Thank you in advance and sending warm hugs.

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Re: Worried I may have a sex problem

Unread postby René » 14 January 2020, 21:11

Hey A., welcome to the forum! You might like to post an intro thread in the introductions section :keke:

And ooh, we've heard something like this before, haven't we? I don't remember what conclusion was reached, but you're definitely not the only one.
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Re: Worried I may have a sex problem

Unread postby Brenden » 14 January 2020, 21:18

1. How old are you?
2. Do you have any difficulty emptying your bladder? Does it feel like it all comes out?
3. Any pain when urinating?
4. Do you frequently have the urge to urinate, even after you've just gone?
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Re: Worried I may have a sex problem

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 14 January 2020, 22:45

Are you sure it's pee?
The way your describing it kinda sounds like a prostate orgasm.

If you do a quick search on any of the popular porn sites for prostate orgasm. Or prostate milking you will get a better idea of what im talking about.

Some guys can drip and shoot for minutes and produce enough liquid where it could easily be mistaken for urine.

Im not saying thats what is happening but your description sure sounds close to it.
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Re: Worried I may have a sex problem

Unread postby Subra » 15 January 2020, 00:05

Two possibilities spring to mind. You had a full bladder and didn't realise, or more likely it was precum. It can be very watery without the sperm and almost look like pee, and it comes from having your prostate massaged rigorously. A big dick would do this.
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Re: Worried I may have a sex problem

Unread postby orii » 15 January 2020, 00:32

Hi guys.

Thanks so much for responding. I would reply to each comment individually but I'm still figuring out how to use the site.
@Rene, thanks for the heads up will be sure to post an introduction.
@Brenden, I'm 27 years old. I generally have no difficulty urinating at all but during sex, I get the overwhelming urge to pee and I can't control the push that comes with feeling like expelling the contents of my bladder.
@cap._trips, thanks for the tip. i will do some more research on that.
@Subra, it definitely was pee. In fact, whenever I'm having sex, I tend to have a towel on me now and by the end of the session, it will have been almost fully wet with the stuff.
To be honest, most times, I feel the stickiness of cum on my skin where the pee has touched during sex.

I would see a doctor about this but I live in West Africa where being gay or having what are considered ''gay'' problems isn't the best thing to admit to, if you know what I mean. lol.

Thanks again for all your responses.
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Don’t worry

Unread postby Signwriter » 24 February 2020, 22:29

I’m sure it’s just the length of his penis that’s massaging your prostate which could have that effect although it could well be pre-cum.
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Re: Worried I may have a sex problem

Unread postby Jryski » 24 February 2020, 23:17

It’s not a problem because the bladder is a teeny bit further down than where the prostate is. If the guy is super long and hes massaging your bladder with his dick (which happens a lot with longer guys) you might relax into it because the sensation of peeing and ejaculating is sorta similar. It definitely happens and nothing is wrong with you. My ex used to pee a bit as he cums because the feeling of his ejaculation is heightened when he really needs to pee. It’s harder to reach orgasm that way but when he does his body can’t tell the two apart so he loses control of his bladder temporarily. It’s like double the pleasure for him. And just for the record, I was the one that told him/showed him that.
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Re: Worried I may have a sex problem

Unread postby Eryx » 27 February 2020, 07:09

hahaha I had the same experience a couple of times recently. I'm not sure yet if it was pee or just pre-cum. I feel like my boyfriend was just hitting the right spot at the prostate (the position seemed appropriate for that to be the case) and I didn't care that much about it. It hasn't happened again as of yet, but I suspect it has happened before and has something to do with pleasure/pressure spots.

I wouldn't worry too much about it; even if it is pee, as long as you -- and him -- both take care of your hygiene after. And if you feel like you need to know more, go to the doctor and explain. I don't know how urologists see things in Sierra Leone, but at least in general, they're supposed to be able to understand and diagnose things like this.

I also agree with Jryski just above, it's almost like multiple orgasms. I recommend the feeling!
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