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Unread postby Timeless » 24 July 2020, 09:50

Hi all,

I’m new to the forum. I have been married and divorced, whilst married I always watched gay porn. I enjoyed sex with my wife of course but had a strong urge and attraction to men.

I divorced a few years back, nothing to do with my interest in men, usual divorce reasons, including a lack of sex drive from the wife.

I then decided to not go into another relationship with a woman so have since only had sex with men and I have had the most fulfilling sex life with men and I would not go back to living or dating a woman.

I don’t want this to come across as anti women as I’m not at all but leading the life I lead now with men is less complicated and I’m have better sex (pre Covid) so my question is why is life less complicated when dating men than it is with women?

On the sex front, I’ve found that men don’t need all the warming up that women ask for, time, weather, right moment etc and with men the simple fact is we will have sex if the partner asks even if it’s not 100% the right moment. Even if it’s just a wank, or blowjob to please your partner and allow him the release he needs.

Everyone’s experience is different, so this is just mine hence why I want to hear yours?

Sorry for generalising about women. It’s only my experience. I don’t want to offend anyone.
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Re: Your views on sex with men

Unread postby Valso » 24 July 2020, 10:07

Timeless wrote:the life I lead now with men is less complicated and I’m have better sex (pre Covid) so my question is why is life less complicated when dating men?

I've noticed that too but I can't answer your question cuz IDK. I'm pansexual and had relationships with women and men. Well, back then we were more like boys and girls but you get the picture. It's funny that my longest relationship with a woman was just 8 months, while with a man it was 3 years and ended not by our choice, otherwise it would probably last forever. With him we could have sex everywhere - literally! On the train on our way to the sea, on a path in the mountain from top to bottom (2-3 km) and we took that distance in several hours (guess why :lol: )... With a man (not just with the one I had 3 years, with every other too) I've never heard the stupid excuse "I need the right conditions to have sex". Image
Cumming to think of it, maybe it's easier and simpler because being men we also know what men want and makes pleasing another penis much easier, whereas women never know what they want, much less when and how. :lol:
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Re: Your views on sex with men

Unread postby Brenden » 24 July 2020, 10:59

We're a sexually dimorphic species and there are major differences in the psychology of males and females.
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Re: Your views on sex with men

Unread postby Timeless » 25 July 2020, 17:19

I've never heard the stupid excuse "I need the right conditions to have sex". Image

Sorry, I was trying to be funny without much success. I meant, my experiences have been that women have to be in the right frame of mind, relaxed etc to have sex which has in the past reduced the excitement for me.

It’s more spontaneous with men which is what I prefer.
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Re: Your views on sex with men

Unread postby Valso » 25 July 2020, 17:23

Timeless wrote:I've never heard the stupid excuse "I need the right conditions to have sex".

I've actualy heard that from women, though not so specifically but with the same meaning.
It's not so much the spontaneity that I enjoy with men, but the versatility - what I can do to them, they can do to me. Thus double pleasure, not to mention twice longer action than with women. ;)
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Re: Your views on sex with men

Unread postby Timeless » 25 July 2020, 23:32

Oh, the versatility!

What a perfect word to describe the differences. With women, as I felt I was always the one expected take the lead, I went the complete opposite way with men.
I mainly am the bottom and enjoy being enjoyed.
I also enjoy topping although I don’t do that as often, and so far with partners they have been happy to do both, so we have tons of options to keep entertained.

The only problem is being able to recover in time for round two!
The double pleasure is fantastic. When I was with women it would normally be one round and sleep (not my decision).
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