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Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 13:58
by Gay-paul
I wonder why some, mostt gay do it, it's looks that it's not so cool for the bottom dude :)

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 14:21
by Marmaduke
You’re 35 and these are the questions you’re asking?

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 14:29
by PopTart
Well, this is gay-paul, it's kind of the caliber of question he has always asked here.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 16:23
by katzgar
Marmaduke wrote:You’re 35 and these are the questions you’re asking?


do you really need to be a dick?

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 16:35
by Marmaduke
katzgar wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:You’re 35 and these are the questions you’re asking?


do you really need to be a dick?

You don’t think it’s a fair question? You’re of the belief that we patronise and tolerate the man, lest he never realise that his questions are inane and the focus of his attentions would be better directed elsewhere?

No, by all means, let’s humour the adult that thinks all bottoms are masochists. He otherwise brings such richness and cultural value to the forum that it’s worth the sacrifice to keep him around. He’s our MVP.

Shut up.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 16:41
by katzgar
Marmaduke wrote:
katzgar wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:You’re 35 and these are the questions you’re asking?


do you really need to be a dick?

You don’t think it’s a fair question? You’re of the belief that we patronise and tolerate the man, lest he never realise that his questions are inane and the focus of his attentions would be better directed elsewhere?

No, by all means, let’s humour the adult that thinks all bottoms are masochists. He otherwise brings such richness and cultural value to the forum that it’s worth the sacrifice to keep him around. He’s our MVP.

Shut up.


no its not a fair question. SAGE in NOLA has a group especially for gays that came out late in life. There are many gays with exwives and children. Stop being an ass hole.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 17:51
by Marmaduke
katzgar wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
katzgar wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:You’re 35 and these are the questions you’re asking?


do you really need to be a dick?

You don’t think it’s a fair question? You’re of the belief that we patronise and tolerate the man, lest he never realise that his questions are inane and the focus of his attentions would be better directed elsewhere?

No, by all means, let’s humour the adult that thinks all bottoms are masochists. He otherwise brings such richness and cultural value to the forum that it’s worth the sacrifice to keep him around. He’s our MVP.

Shut up.


no its not a fair question. SAGE in NOLA has a group especially for gays that came out late in life. There are many gays with exwives and children. Stop being an ass hole.


Firstly, let’s address the most pressing point of concern in this post; the implication that 35 is late in life. How dare you. I’m 33, don’t lump me in with you.

Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education. He does need to, but not in the way you seem to think. Allowing yourself to believe that all bottoms may be habitually undertaking an inherently painful act in service to a top is fucking stupid. Fundamentally, inarguably stupid. Primarily and urgently, what OP needs to start doing is thinking about what he’s saying before he says it. It’s fine talking before you think when you’re a child, that’s how children get taught things. When you’re 35, it’s less cute and should definitely be second nature.

This isn’t all about you and your generation, Grandad. Stop making everything about old people. And then shut up.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 18:13
by katzgar
Marmaduke wrote:
katzgar wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
katzgar wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:You’re 35 and these are the questions you’re asking?


do you really need to be a dick?

You don’t think it’s a fair question? You’re of the belief that we patronise and tolerate the man, lest he never realise that his questions are inane and the focus of his attentions would be better directed elsewhere?

No, by all means, let’s humour the adult that thinks all bottoms are masochists. He otherwise brings such richness and cultural value to the forum that it’s worth the sacrifice to keep him around. He’s our MVP.

Shut up.


no its not a fair question. SAGE in NOLA has a group especially for gays that came out late in life. There are many gays with exwives and children. Stop being an ass hole.


Firstly, let’s address the most pressing point of concern in this post; the implication that 35 is late in life. How dare you. I’m 33, don’t lump me in with you.

Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education. He does need to, but not in the way you seem to think. Allowing yourself to believe that all bottoms may be habitually undertaking an inherently painful act in service to a top is fucking stupid. Fundamentally, inarguably stupid. Primarily and urgently, what OP needs to start doing is thinking about what he’s saying before he says it. It’s fine talking before you think when you’re a child, that’s how children get taught things. When you’re 35, it’s less cute and should definitely be second nature.

This isn’t all about you and your generation, Grandad. Stop making everything about old people. And then shut up.


in other words being a dick is central to your value system

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 18:31
by Marmaduke
I suppose it is

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 19:47
by pozzie
Marmaduke wrote:No, by all means, let’s humour the adult that thinks all bottoms are masochists.


Wow! I'm about as supportive of that as I am giving everyone who tests positive for Covid a couple doses of hydroxychloroquine and a note to call their GP in the morning.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 20:11
by pozzie
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 20:15
by katzgar
pozzie wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?


there is an estimated 300,000 homeless LGBTQ children in the US thrown out by their parents.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 20:41
by Marmaduke
katzgar wrote:
pozzie wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?


there is an estimated 300,000 homeless LGBTQ children in the US thrown out by their parents.

You think he’s a 35 year old, late in life, married with kids homeless gay American child?

Would you maybe care to stick to one hypothetical and try and make it work, as opposed to throwing them all at the wall and hoping one sticks?

There are as many as 66,000 Americans living today that were born without an anus. Maybe he’s one of those too. Maybe he’s a late in life 35 year old disowned American child with an ex-wife, three kids and no anus. Or maybe, just maybe, he and you are stupid. Plain old, run of the mill stupid. One certainly seems more likely than the other.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 21:10
by Brenden
katzgar wrote:
pozzie wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?

there is an estimated 300,000 homeless LGBTQ children in the US thrown out by their parents.

Highly skeptical that 55% of the US's entire homeless population is LGBTQ children.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 21:53
by katzgar
Brenden wrote:
katzgar wrote:
pozzie wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?

there is an estimated 300,000 homeless LGBTQ children in the US thrown out by their parents.

Highly skeptical that 55% of the US's entire homeless population is LGBTQ children.


why is it so important for you to embarrass yourself? https://lesley.edu/article/the-cost-of- ... melessness the fact that you cant use a search engine is disconcerting

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 21:59
by PopTart
If you ignore him, he goes away. Just ignore him, he literally only has a handful of pre-programmed responses. You might aswell talk to a bot.

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 28 December 2021, 22:38
by pozzie
Brenden wrote:
katzgar wrote:
pozzie wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?

there is an estimated 300,000 homeless LGBTQ children in the US thrown out by their parents.

Highly skeptical that 55% of the US's entire homeless population is LGBTQ children.


Oh surely they are just naïve to the fact they are really LGBTQ. ;)

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 30 December 2021, 09:16
by Gay-paul
pozzie wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?


Well I'm ashamed being gay while mine family is fairly supportive I have Asperger's diagnosed about 2002 I was suspected having Inattentive ADHD before that, and I'm bit stupid because mine 104 IQ :D

I was banned from several services and Quora (That why I bought NordVPN subscription :D )


I love asking controversial question like this one
https://www.reddit.com/r/Catholicism/co ... lues_gods/

And Polish Armed force allowed gay to serve since 60's
One Polish comunist General at People Republoc of Polanmd onc said why exclude gay from service we need just to make separate living quarters and showers for them so normal "heterosexual" troops feels comfortable, and if gay would serve in frontline lines during possible World War III American United States Aiforce solve gay problem for them if most non heternomrative die in nuclear war more productive part of our society survive in nuclear shelter :(

It;s not me just miss quoting that jerk :(

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 30 December 2021, 09:18
by Gay-paul
pozzie wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Secondly, the point - whilst admittedly partly - is not primarily an invitation for OP to educate himself on sex education.


I also have to wonder if any of this has to do with being in Poland: I'm guessing there are places within that former "Eastern Block" state, and others, where people are still dealing with anti-gay propaganda and misinformation. Could this be at play or is the OP just 'naïve'?



A bit of both but mostly 2nd part :)

Still feel ashamed :(

Re: Does anal sex hurt?

Unread postPosted: 30 December 2021, 21:58
by pozzie
IDK, everyone talks about anal sex hurting initially like that's somehow special. Not sure the first time a guy slips it into a vagina the woman immediately moans in most supreme ecstasy. While I have no firsthand experience of what a woman feels, there is certainly enough portrayal of female difficulty to lead me to believe there is something universal in the experiences we've seen portrayed.

Now how a woman goes from pain to pleasure during penetration is a total mystery but that shouldn't come as a surprise when one knows I'm really, really gay (as in little to no attraction to women). Clearly though, for both men and women, being penetrated involves both physical and mental (and emotional) responses. All three can be overcome by most people and believe it or not, some women have anal sex, so it's not just gay men.

However, I wonder how many people like hard liquor the first time they drink it. It too can be painful but people seem to overcome or find ways around that -- say lots of sweet soda or fruit juice to mask the pain. Others figure out how to enjoy and savor it neat.

Figuring out a way to enjoy anal sex pretty much comes with the territory. For some it's getting the right partner or the right lube (or the right dildo). Sometimes it's just about practice. Or a combination of things.

But no, please don't think it's always going to be painful. As many of us will attest, it can be quite pleasurable (and has nothing to do with masochism). ;)