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Why have gay men always seemed to hate me?

Unread postPosted: 21 July 2022, 04:14
by Awyatt950
Why was I never seen to? What in your minds made me too ugly to f*ck or date? My insta account is @awyatt950 for pictures of me. Why did I have to go thru my teens and 20s being overlooked by you people?

Re: Why have gay men always seemed to hate me?

Unread postPosted: 21 July 2022, 04:18
by Awyatt950
Why should I have to feel like I’m the elephant man?

Re: Why have gay men always seemed to hate me?

Unread postPosted: 3 August 2022, 11:22
by McTaggartfan
Awyatt950 wrote:Why was I never seen to? What in your minds made me too ugly to f*ck or date? My insta account is @awyatt950 for pictures of me. Why did I have to go thru my teens and 20s being overlooked by you people?


It wasn't so much anything having to do with our minds that made you too ugly to fuck or date, but instead it was very much a few things about your mind. You seem to be laboring under the delusion that you're in some respect entitled to having "us" pleasure you or enter into certain relations with you—or else, Heaven forbid, lust after you as one passionately or sexually desirous of another.

Let me, therefore, take on now the same role as did Socrates, namely, that of the midwife; allow me to clear away these erroneous beliefs of yours, and let me dispose of these offspring of your thought, which are naught save "false phantoms" and "bits of nonsense."

Your personality and character—at least as exhibited at the time of your posts—appears to me to be thoroughly unpleasant, somewhat repulsive, and a suitable target for one's disapprobation. Why is this the case, you might wonder? Well to start, you reveal yourself to be grossly entitled by your question, "Why was I never seen to?" Utterly consumed by your own self-absorption and sheer cupidity, you write as though you're the lord and master of the Universe—as though our sole purpose for existing is to fulfill your lascivious whims and satiate your appetite for fulsome attention and appreciation. Unfortunately for you, your excessively positive appraisal of your own worth, alongside your arrogant demeanor, are both woefully ill-founded. For I'd hazard that it's because of these very aspects of your character, of your speech and behavior, that you're viewed as an unsuitable partner for sexual intercourse or intimate relationships. Indeed, solely based on that one comment I'd say I'd have utterly no interest in you.

In the second place, considering your post it seems that you expected we could offer substantive and reasoned answers to your questions, solely on the basis of our viewing some photos of you. After all, why else would you bother posing your questions, unless you believed we'd be able to answer them? Why else would you refer us to your Instagram photos, while at the same time neglecting to mention anything of yourself as a person?

This, I think, indicates you've an inadequate and thoroughly shallow conception of how people go about deciding whether they would (or wouldn't) be open to dating someone (or even fucking them for that matter). However, I suppose this shouldn't come as any great surprise, since this notional deficiency plainly accords with what I earlier speculated, namely and at least ostensibly: (1) that you're as insufferably vain as was Narcissus upon provoking the ire of Nemesis; (2) that you're unduly prideful, self-complacent, and immodest; as well as (3) that you're not only inclined toward indecorous acts, but you're also shamelessly impudent—as is evidenced both by your sense of entitlement and your use of the expression, "you people."

Presuming the above remarks more or less approximate the truth of things, I'd venture to opine that I've no difficulty imagining why people wouldn't want to fuck or date you. And I'm quite certain that if your post is anything to go by, I'd not want to engage in even as little as a conversation with you.

Now if you would, I should like to briefly recapitulate what's been tentatively affirmed herein by reason of the manifold factors discussed above. (1) You weren't overlooked, you simply were considered by others and found by them to be wanting. (2) Regardless of any physical virtues you possess, and without judging whether your body is sexually alluring, it seems to remain that you're lacking as concerns your character, your sense of courteousness, and so on. (3) Moreover, these personal deficiencies are of sufficient severity that others' gaining knowledge of them may result in their perceiving you as execrable. (4) The issues or factors negatively affecting your prospects (sexual or otherwise) appear more likely to be attributable to you, rather than to anyone else; and from this, I suspect it probably follows that you, instead of any of us, are the one who's at fault for your lack of suitors. And lastly, (5) we here on the forum, who know you not and who are altogether unacquainted with you, haven't expressed any belief that "you're too ugly to f*ck or date"; wherefore you're assuming to the contrary might indicate more about you and the way your mind works, than about us or anyone else involved in your present or past situation.

It's my hope that this has been illuminating for you. Additionally, I'd rather like to think I've made as vigorous and diligent an attempt at answering your questions as I can presently manage.