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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 13 April 2020, 23:54
by Archaeopteryx
Complicated question. Probably realized it in my mid teens. Finally admitted it...to myself....in my 50s.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 14 April 2020, 03:16
by Neuro
When I was a kid, I always attracted to my male teachers in primary school.
I like girls in a way of admiration.
Never question my sexual orientation and feel abnormal.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 21 April 2020, 03:13
by theone
I practically came out of the womb gay, but didn't come to terms with it until I was 16, if not later than that. Didn't come out until I was 22.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 21 April 2020, 03:49
by OhHeyItsZach
I was 16 when I realized I was gay as that is when I started to get hard anytime I was around a hot guy.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 29 April 2020, 05:17
by Lil-Joe
14, Four difficult years, Guess i was a year of 18 while i heard the first time about homosexuality.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 23 May 2020, 05:59
by tu144
So here's the thing... Not for a while after I started having "gay" thoughts. Like, I understood I was different, but I didn't know how or why, and there was a denial phase too--I only came out to my parents my senior year of high school. But if I was totally honest with myself, I probably first had thoughts about another dude as early as fourth grade.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 18 June 2020, 03:58
by Ander1969
I really had no interest in guys till my mid thirties :wide-eyed: . I fooled around with boys when I was young, but that's because there were no willing girls handy. I had one male crush in my early twenties at college, but that passed quickly. Otherwise, it hit me like a ton of bricks in my thirties.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 23 June 2020, 01:36
by abmis
Whew! So glad I realized I was gay when I was 9. The most amazing realization ever! ;)

What age were you?

Unread postPosted: 30 June 2020, 12:54
by Jdog911
What age were you when you knew you were gay? What do you recall of that time?
I was 8.
I was looking at a magazine with a photo of a shirtless guy and i told my brother he looked awesome. He said are you gay? But in a mean way. I shut up.
Don't most str8 boys not like girls until puberty? Why was i so interested so young?

Re: What age were you?

Unread postPosted: 30 June 2020, 13:48
by Eryx
My first crush was at 6.
My first experience was at 9.
Only at 12 I realized what I was feeling for my best friend was more than friendship, and that I liked dick.
Came out to family at 16.
Lost my virginity at 18.

Re: What age were you?

Unread postPosted: 30 June 2020, 14:56
by ThatNomad
Looking back my first crush was on a boy in my kindergarten class. Can't even remember his name now. After that it was the boy next door when I was about nine or so, when he moved in. But the age I actually understood, that was probably eleven, when I met a boy who transferred into my sixth grade class.

Unfortunately for me my family was rather homophobic, and I had been raised in the Southern Baptist church, so I was both afraid, and revolted that I was gay, and refused to admit it. It wasn't until I was eighteen and met the person who would become my first real gay friend that I finally realized there was nothing wrong with it and accepted it about myself. Came out that year, and lost my virginity a few months later.

Re: What age were you?

Unread postPosted: 30 June 2020, 15:14
by René
It's not that unusual I think. My first proper crush was at 14, but I definitely had some feelings in that direction before puberty.

I thought my cousin Michael was really cute I wanna say around age 8. (He actually was, and still is. :3)

And around I think age 10 I was definitely attracted to a guy I saw in a magazine.

(Came out at 16, lost virginity on my 21st birthday.)

Re: What age were you?

Unread postPosted: 30 June 2020, 18:07
by goDXes
I agree that its not unusual to have an attraction before puberty.

I had a friend growing up when I was around 7 or 8 and him and I used to fool around a lot. We got caught by our parents multiple times that we set up booby traps to alert us is someone was coming close XD. This went on until I was 11.

I knew I was gay since then. Didn't officially "come out" until 13. Lost my virginity during that time mentioned earlier.

Re: What age were you?

Unread postPosted: 30 June 2020, 18:15
by Severelius
The first crushes that I was able to properly acknowledge as a crush were at 13 which was when I started to figure out that I was into other boys.

One of them being on one of my secondary school bullies probably fucked me up a fair bit and made the whole thing more difficult than it needed to be but oh well.

With the benefit of hindsight it's fair to say I had quite a few crushes when I was quite a bit younger than that. At the time I just thought I was really desperate to have friends but looking back on it, nah I was just crushing hard on certain boys in my class without realising that's what was going on.

Re: What age were you?

Unread postPosted: 1 July 2020, 06:37
by azureflame
Around 7 or 8 I was in love with a classmate. In my innocence I remember telling him how cute I thought he was quite a few times. I didn't even know being gay was a thing back then but I knew I liked boys.

Around 13 though my best friend started doing sex stuff that went on for 2 or 3 years. By the time he broke it up (he got cold feet cause he seemed way into it and got scared) I was already sure I was completely gay. So I just went with it and got it on a month later with a classmate who liked me a lot.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 4 July 2020, 19:10
by simplyb1
Always had a kinky side I probably would have started very early at 15 I was surprised sexually by a 30yr old married woman honestly she taught me to lick pussy like a lesbian so glad things I learned also work on men I began tasting my precum and cum almost from first time masturbating I always thought something was wrong with wanting to lick cum off my fingers .I didn't always like taste middle or towards end but couldn't get enough of clear sweet precum as it got cloudy I still enjoyed it then just to much cum palm my hand putting my lips deep into it jacking off in a condom very quickly sucking inside out .didn't have sex toys then things I put up in side my ass making my dick limp and dripping cum

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 7 July 2020, 20:48
by Bigbiguy4sex87
I was really young when I was shown the ropes of gay sex... I loved it right from the start and was told that I was gay! I went through a denial period in my 20s and had increased trying to sleep with women... However even though I was in denial, I still craved dick and would sleep with men!

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 10 July 2020, 17:10
by Rednwhite
I gave my mate a blow job when I was 14. He came in my mouth we were both silent after, thoroughly enjoyed it.

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postPosted: 11 July 2020, 16:01
by kotek91
I was 16 when I thouht I;m a gay man. I always liked man . At high school I had a one teacher who I liked very well . He was a gay too....