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I'm confused and need advice

Unread postPosted: 12 February 2020, 04:33
by ChuckLee
So I'm a dude. There's this girl I work with. Absolutely gorgeous. I found out she's into me. Great right?!? Well my brains doesn't think so! Because now all I can think about is boys. And yes I know sexuality can be fluid. But why, whenever I have high chances with a girl, my brain hard flips on me. Like a switch goes off. This KEEPS HAPPENING. Am I really just gay? But I don't think so, because as soon as this opportunity passes which it surely will, I'll like women again. This doesn't happen when I'm liking on a boy. It just flows au natural. And it's always So Damn Easy. Has anyone else experienced this? What do I do? Thanks for ANY advice at all

frustrated and tired

Re: I'm confused and need advice

Unread postPosted: 12 February 2020, 06:08
by kenzie_matt
Hey Chuck.
This is a tough situation to be in, but I think we, as a society, are too quick to put ourselves and others into boxes. It may just be hormones, it may be curiosity. Are the feelings based purely on sex, or are you referring to emotional connections as well?

Re: I'm confused and need advice

Unread postPosted: 12 February 2020, 15:41
by Safigooner
confusing situation, I am sure u will figure it out with time.
Really can't say much here to help u out , but I think u should just go all out and experience everything around u till u finally find out what u like