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Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 01:16
by rado84
Lately I got more than a few extra pounds (not my fault, it's my inherited from the father diabetes) and suddenly it became hard to find a guy who wants to have sex with me. At first when we talk on messenger or using the message forms on the web platform we met, it's OK. Even when we meet, it's OK. But when we get to the point to have sex, they always find an excuse not to do it.
So - would you do it with a fat guy?

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 06:41
by Eryx
There's a sweet spot when it comes to body fat that if you do work out, with some extra body hair and a pleasant smile, you're a bear, and everyone will want you just the way you are. I, for one, am interested in bears from time to time. However, if you look like a literal blob, like Ditto from Pokémon, where it's obvious that you make no effort in keeping healthy and watching your food, looks can become unattractive really fast.

I have no problem with meeting overweight people and I'm not high-maintenance. I feel like most people feel the same. I confess going to the gym properly has caused for me to garner more attention, but it hasn't made that much of a dramatic difference. I don't think people care if you have a gut, people care if you look healthy and like you care about yourself. When you can notice that someone else is just feeling "fuck it" about their physical health, you don't get interested either. That's why self-confidence (and, perhaps, awareness) is important.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 06:54
by Marmaduke
What are we calling “a few extra pounds”?

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Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 06:57
by Eryx
PostThis post was deleted by Eryx on 27 February 2020, 06:58.
Reason: I misread

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 08:56
by rogonandi
Yes, considering I’m pretty fat myself. :shrug:

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 09:02
by René
rado84 wrote:Lately I got more than a few extra pounds (not my fault, it's my inherited from the father diabetes)

That doesn't mean there's nothing you can do about it. By taking metformin, increasing your fibre intake and cutting your carb intake and calories overall, you can lose weight for sure. Your genetics don't consign you to being overweight.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 11:56
by rado84
Marmaduke wrote:What are we calling “a few extra pounds”?

If I'm getting the measurement units right that 1 pound is 0.5 kg (that imperial measurement system is killing my brain cells), it's 10-16 pounds more than I'm supposed to be for my height and age. According to doctors, I should be 180 pounds.
So far I tried several diets but I only get hungrier with them and accomplish nothing. I'll try what Rene suggested, altough he's using terms that sound alien to me (as in not from this planet). :)

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 12:07
by René
1 lb = 454 g

But lbs are mainly used in America. :usa:

Here, kg is common. And stones. I weigh 62 kg or 9.8 stone, for example. :uk:

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 13:22
by Marmaduke
If you’re 180lbs, unless you’re very short, then I think you’re doing yourself a disservice to call yourself fat.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 14:11
by Jryski
It really depends on your height. If you’re like 6’2, eat healthy, and regularly work out, then 196 lbs is perfectly acceptable. If you’re 5’9-5’10 like me, never go to the gym and is at 196 lbs then something in your life needs to change.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 14:51
by Capt._Trips
Tbh i don't specifically look for heavier guys. Im not physically attracted to that body type. But if i became attracted to the personality of a heavier guy id have no problem hooking up with them.

I guess thats kinda shallow but its the truth.

Having said that there are guys who are physically attracted to heavier guy's.

Maybe you could try and hold off on the sex until you guy's connect better on a personal level.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 17:04
by rado84
Jryski wrote:It really depends on your height. If you’re like 6’2, eat healthy, and regularly work out, then 196 lbs is perfectly acceptable. If you’re 5’9-5’10 like me, never go to the gym and is at 196 lbs then something in your life needs to change.

My height is 183 centimeters. IDK how to calculate that into the American measurement system.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 17:53
by Eryx

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Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 18:22
by Derek
https://lmgtfy.com/?q=183+centimeters+in+inches

Remember this? It's so bitchy, I love it.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 19:36
by Jryski
rado84 wrote:
Jryski wrote:It really depends on your height. If you’re like 6’2, eat healthy, and regularly work out, then 196 lbs is perfectly acceptable. If you’re 5’9-5’10 like me, never go to the gym and is at 196 lbs then something in your life needs to change.

My height is 183 centimeters. IDK how to calculate that into the American measurement system.

You’re 6 ft tall. It’s not too bad but it wouldn’t hurt to start exercising regularly and eating a more balanced diet. :) but in regards to doing it with bigger dudes, If I really liked someone I wouldnt really care if they have love handles and what not. I’d try to help them eat healthier though.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 23:04
by rado84

It doesn't work that way. Google requires specifying of measurement units and since no one is adding such things to "6'2", IDK what they are, thus Google shows me different things but mostly articles about the Indonesian 6.2 earthquake on the Richter scale. :lol:

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 27 February 2020, 23:25
by Capt._Trips
Just type "183 centimeters in inches." :P

The first answer was the conversion of about a half inch over 6 feet.
Itll do just about any coversion as long as you know what you want it to be converted to.
Im sure searching something like " converions metric to standard" would come up with something to.

Dont understanf why the rest of the world wants to be so difficult and use a totally different system. :runaway:
( that's sarcasm. ;) )

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 28 February 2020, 00:00
by Jryski
Youre 6ft tall

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 29 February 2020, 02:04
by OhHeyItsZach
No I wouldn't as I'm not attracted to the type of person, but don't get me wrong a little fattness is fine.

Re: Would you do it with a fat guy?

Unread postPosted: 29 February 2020, 07:46
by Eryx
rado84 wrote:

It doesn't work that way. Google requires specifying of measurement units and since no one is adding such things to "6'2", IDK what they are, thus Google shows me different things but mostly articles about the Indonesian 6.2 earthquake on the Richter scale. :lol:
If you type "183 cm to feet" on Google, you get an actual calculator's answer before the page results. Didn't you know that?