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Sex, really. The gross bit.

Unread postPosted: 23 May 2020, 06:02
by tu144
Hey guys,
I'm brand new here--figured it should probably be the first place I ask this question. I'm a 21 year old male. I can't seem ever to be totally clean. I have a buddy and we mess around--technically he's engaged but his female fiance doesn't mind what we do--she watches sometime. But it's embarrassing when I'm not totally clean. I'm fit, active, and healthy. Idk what to do.
I'm sorry if this has been asked before, but I figured I might as well start from zero.

Thanks!

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Unread postPosted: 23 May 2020, 14:00
by Choicespecs
Gay sex is always going to be messy. There is no 100% guarantee that nothing is going to come out.
Don't douch every day, you could mess up your insides worse than sticking something up there.

Focus on diet. Its the cross bottoms have to bare.

Don't be embarrassed if something comes out. Because that's just what sex is like. Unless they are making fun of you. Then thats a different story.

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Unread postPosted: 23 May 2020, 14:38
by Brenden
Try taking psyllium husk. It's a soluble gel-forming fibre that helps form solid bowel movements that take everything with them.

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Unread postPosted: 24 May 2020, 09:05
by betonhaus
I think those two posts cover the spectrum pretty well. It's going to be messy, but fibre does help.

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Unread postPosted: 25 May 2020, 16:08
by Eryx
Eat stuff that leaves the body in one piece, or simply don't eat too much before you know you're going to have sex. I douche for special occasions, when I know it's going to be something more eventful than usual. But normally you just prepare yourself as you can.

It's natural if it gets a little dirty anyway. That's what showers are for. You can even finish there.

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Unread postPosted: 27 May 2020, 11:24
by Spacekitty
Everyone pretty much ticked the boxes here. Diet is so essential it's just ridiculous. Like Choicespecs says, a cross to bare. And don't forget acidic tummy issues can also be difficult and needs to be controlled. And like Choicespecs said, don't douche every day. Rather do what Eryx does - only for special occasions. I do the same. Little silly tip I can add - If your feel confident enough you have the fibre thing under control but just wondering if all ok but want to skip the douche - lubed finger or 2 is a quick and easy way to just cross check in the bathroom that all is ok beforehand. More than sufficient to get anything small out of the way.

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Unread postPosted: 27 May 2020, 11:31
by Spacekitty
betonhaus wrote:I think those two posts cover the spectrum pretty well. It's going to be messy, but fibre does help.


Fact on the but messy part. It happens from time to time. And it's fine and completely human. As gay guys we sometimes have the idea straight sex is always "clean". And in gay porn you never ever see anything. Both are myths.

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Unread postPosted: 27 May 2020, 12:26
by Magic J
Spacekitty wrote:As gay guys we sometimes have the idea straight sex is always "clean". And in gay porn you never ever see anything. Both are myths.

Yup. Straight sex is just as gross. It's all fun and games until the post coital moment and you suddenly realise you're both disgusting. You just have fetch a towel, have a cigarette, and apologise to god as best you can. :P

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Unread postPosted: 27 May 2020, 12:37
by Spacekitty
Magic J wrote:
Spacekitty wrote:As gay guys we sometimes have the idea straight sex is always "clean". And in gay porn you never ever see anything. Both are myths.

Yup. Straight sex is just as gross. It's all fun and games until the post coital moment and you suddenly realise you're both disgusting. You just have fetch a towel, have a cigarette, and apologise to god as best you can. :P


:rofl:

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Unread postPosted: 28 May 2020, 00:31
by theone
Everybody is right...you can't ensure that you are 100% clean. Diet is a part of it. I also take Pure For Men to help ensure that things come out better.

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Unread postPosted: 30 May 2020, 05:30
by oceansbottom
When I first starting bottoming, I felt bad when it got "dirty" and my top said to me, "it's ok. You can't expect to play in the mud and not get dirty." That totally put me at ease.