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Re: Ashamed about wanting to be used

Unread postPosted: 18 March 2021, 02:34
by Raynethemagi
ghostspaces wrote:
Raynethemagi wrote:See, I wish I could be that adventurous when it comes to sex.

But nope, I'm as fucking vanilla as they come. I'm into the most boring damn sex ever. BDSM is not sexually satisfying to me, and the less pain the better, at least for me. I'm not against a guy topping me, because there's something about that act that's appealing to me. But the worse it comes to pain is slapping my ass. That's honestly about as far as I go.

Here's the even more weird part. I like to fuck an actual dude. I like hearing guy sounds during sex, cause sissy sounds turn me off. And, when it comes to sex I'm a total guy too. I make guy grunts and noises. But, as to what happens during sex, it's like I'm some chick. I want a guy to tell me he loves me, I want a guy to tell me that he'll always be there for me, I want a guy to want to be with me and only me. Like, that makes me horny as fuck.

And you wanna know the reason why I like my sex that way? So, since I am an aspiring Therapist/Motivational Speaker/ Public Speaker, I've figured out why I like to bring down my guard during sex. It's because, I've kind of always felt like, and to some degree still feel, that I am constantly in survivor mode. I feel like I have to constantly stand my ground, that I have to constantly defend my ass, even though I probably don't need to. So, when I have sex, I don't want to be in another situation where I feel like I'm butting heads with someone. I want someone who will kiss me passionately. I want someone to fuck me passionately. I want someone to basically worship me, but not obsessively. Just whisper compliments in my ear, or tell me how handsome I look tonight. I want actual relationship sex, but with a Man and not a sissy.

I dunno, I guess I just need to be loved. To be held and comforted. I need it to be as vanilla as all possible.

I want to be treated like a guy treats another guy, but in a romantic sense. I want bromance, but not thugmance.......if that makes sense.....

So, feel good about what turns you on. Most guys love that shit!

I wish I were like that. Maybe I can't be because I'm not trusting enough or subconsciously fear real relationships. I'm into casual, anonymous stuff. I just want to be so fucking horny for me that he wants to (NEEDS to) take my right there, to bend me over and drill me hard and fast.
I tell myself that this is what I want and maybe it is but I also wish I could enjoy gentle, passionate sex with someone that I have a real emotional connection with. I don't know if I'll ever be able to do that.

Never say never mate! Anything is possible!

Re: Ashamed about wanting to be used

Unread postPosted: 29 March 2021, 03:34
by SubHedo
Absolutely no need to feel ashamed. I too fantasise frequently about being used like a slut. It's a very common fantasy. I too used to get feelings of shame but I realised that life is too short to deny who we are to ourselves. Once I embraced my fantasy role of a slut I felt an incredible freedom. Take it slowly at the start and find the right people to share and guide your journey.

Bottom line - Some of us were born to be sluts. Embrace it but be careful. And, most importantly, enjoy the yummy cocks :P