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I have a fat fetish and I don’t know how to get rid of it

Unread postPosted: 16 March 2021, 09:23
by scotty19

Just want to say... this is an honest post. I’m not trolling, and this is real feelings! (Millions of others like it in the World! Just sometimes it’s not very well known).

So basically, I’m turned on by bigger guys and also gaining weight.

The thing is, I don’t want it getting in the way anymore, but I don’t know how to get rid of it.

What it’s like... I have a friend from college. We both discovered that we were both into it. How we describe it, is it’s like a sexuality. It’s kind of stuck with us. Being ashamed or disliking it, is like someone who at first, might not like that they’re gay. But it’s who they are and it’s who they’ll be for life!

In the last year or so, I put on 40lbs. On purpose. I’m in the “overweight” category, but I’m not unfit - I have an active job (not a desk job), I walk, I cycle lots too.

I feel like I need to lose it just so I look more attractive to other people (my face isn’t fat but has filled out a bit). But I feel confident like this and I love my body.

I did lose a bit of weight recently and I felt like I wasn’t myself. Like I wasn’t being true to myself.

Also it affects with how sexual I’m feeling (also if I’m with another guy). Like if another guy touches my body as well kiss etc, I just instantly get turned on by it. Whereas when I was skinny, it’s like I didn’t get any of that.

I’m the same with other guys too. I love it if a guy has a bit of a belly on him! I don’t mean like obese, but kind of like a rugby player, a bit of muscle with a big chubby belly! I just find it so attractive.

I’m just worried if I meet a guy who’s a bit bigger, then decides to lose weight, I won’t be attracted anymore. Or if I lose weight, I’ll feel a bit like I’m not myself again?

I really don’t know what to do! It annoys me! I hate having it, but it’s like a sexuality and I feel it’s me and I can’t change it about myself.

P.s just to say... I was a bit underweight before. It wasn’t like I was near overweight and put the weight on to a bad weight. I’ve just gone from underweight to overweight but just over... like I’m about 9lbs over what I should be.

I don’t know what to do? I could lose it all, and look more attractive to other guys, which would make me happier because I’d feel confident. But then I also feel confident like this towards guys who like guys with weight on them.

But whatever I do, this thing is always stuck with me. I’m not sure what to do? :(

Re: I have a fat fetish and I don’t know how to get rid of it

Unread postPosted: 17 March 2021, 03:36
by Tubbybear
Do what’s makes you happy 😊

Not everyone will understand what you feeling

welcome to message me

Re: I have a fat fetish and I don’t know how to get rid of it

Unread postPosted: 17 March 2021, 13:34
by ghostspaces
If you feel confident in yourself and like the way I look then I can't think of a reason why you should change. (Even the health aspect: being slightly overweight won't automatically make you unhealthy so as long as you keep track of your food choices and so on a bit of extra weight shouldn't cause you too many issues.)
Regarding losing weight to make yourself more attractive to others: some might find you more attractive then but others will find you less attractive, so.......

But apart from that: I can only speak for myself but I am usually into more fit guys, yet I find the thought of getting fucked by chubby guy really hot. There's probably more guys who (secretly) feel that way.

Re: I have a fat fetish and I don’t know how to get rid of it

Unread postPosted: 25 March 2021, 21:22
by jaredjoy90
I am a bottom, totally a chubby chaser, i even married a chubby guy who spoils me. If you aren't superficial, its not bad.