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Living in denial

Unread postPosted: 3 April 2021, 05:56
by Jay2214
Hi guys

I’m new here, 28, I’m bisexual but feel like I’m living in denial I’ve gone off women but find men more attractive but scared to come out and tell everyone that I like men I need some help and advice on what to do.

Thank you ☺️

Re: Living in denial

Unread postPosted: 3 April 2021, 23:38
by Twilight66
Why do you have to come out to friends and family about how you feel? No need to announce it to the world. Just give it a try, and see if you like it at all, or enough to continue doing it, at which time it may just be more practical to announce to people that you have discovered yourself to be bisexual; until you're sure that you are not attracted to women anymore, at which point you can safely communicate to those you care for an trust that you are gay.

Re: Living in denial

Unread postPosted: 4 April 2021, 00:13
by Jay2214
I’m scared to tell people and I’m just living more and more in denial I don’t have any gay/bi friends

Re: Living in denial

Unread postPosted: 4 April 2021, 00:48
by betonhaus
From what I've experienced myself is that those around you eventually figure it out anyways. Just try to figure out who you want to be but don't make a big deal of hiding or being way out there, look up where gay people in your area hang out and chat and check out those places and apps.