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New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 3 April 2022, 20:36
by tjules329
Hey all, I am new to talking to anyone about this so please be gentle. I do not have a ton of experience being with men or bottoming, I am tossing around the idea of looking for a partner, but for the moment I am comfortable with my toys.

I have a average size 6.5 7" dildo that I like to use.

This last time I was playing I got a little over zealous, and it was very pleasurable and exciting while I was toying.

However afterwards I felt very open, and sore inside and my whole body was tingling? legs shaking. Is this normal for a bottom session or was it due to the veracity of my session?

Any advice? appreciated

Also do you think there is a point where playing with a toy means you are able to handle the real thing?


J-

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 3 April 2022, 21:05
by Marmaduke
“I felt very open and sore inside…was it due to the veracity of my session?”

Yes it was.

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 3 April 2022, 21:09
by René
The feelings you describe (especially tingling all over) definitely remind me of my first few times, so yeah, sounds normal to me. :)

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Unread postPosted: 3 April 2022, 21:22
by tjules329
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Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 3 April 2022, 21:23
by tjules329
René wrote:The feelings you describe (especially tingling all over) definitely remind me of my first few times, so yeah, sounds normal to me. :)



The thing is, I identify as straight, but love to toy myself, and the next day I had sex with my girl and while it usually takes me time to climax, I came very quickly, anyone else experienced that?

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 7 April 2022, 17:31
by jaredjoy90
How about using a smaller dildo? Its slightly easier on the body. As well it gives you more of an appreciation for when you do the real thing...

Keep in mind: when you use a dildo you are in complete control. If you bottom, your partner will likely need some control and he (not purposely) might move in ways that aren't entirely comfortable for you to help him enjoy it.

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 28 April 2022, 14:27
by blondambition
Sounds like you just got it good. When my guy gets me really horny my body tingles and my legs shake a little. He just takes me in the bedroom and takes care of that. We always go at it hard and I always feel relaxed and stress free afterwards.

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 20 May 2022, 16:22
by Retirednav123
trying it when younger it important to go slow and use some lube and the right position to talk to partner as he's going in out and cummings and letting him hold it in and going soft and slipping out and chatting about it with you after and getting youre cock hard for him will make you feel great about it and want to do it again

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 21 May 2022, 21:21
by Bluefish
Usually depressed

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 21 May 2022, 21:41
by Ebrugul
"I felt very open, and sore inside and my whole body was tingling?"

This is absolutely normal. Because you achieved an enormos pleasure. But after this, you relaized a pain.

You can be careful and not to go so deeply.

The firs fee timl after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 26 May 2022, 15:32
by Rob 999
The first few times were sore but that was a long time ago these days it feels great I love my man inside me its so amazing when he cums in me I've always been a bottom and I absolutely love it

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 1 June 2022, 00:50
by CaffeineMan
Sounds about normal to me. The first experience I had with it was a woman fingering me to a prostate orgasm and I felt as If my feet and calves fell asleep after.

That didn’t hurt but yes, sometimes it happens - a toy is too big or you don’t use enough lube or as happened my first time bottoming, he was as thick as a coke can.

Re: New Bottom curious how you feel after a bottom session

Unread postPosted: 18 June 2022, 01:43
by Bob_Sm654
I feel great, relaxed. You know, the feeling of "he was inside me", "he came in me".

You will feel open because you relaxed the anal muscles. When you don't, it will hurt like hell. The soreness was probably due to some tearing of the inner skin (go easy to stretch the skin over time and prevent other tears from happening).
The tingling is just the result of an intense and pleasurable experience.