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On being bi

Unread postPosted: 9 May 2022, 01:47
by poppy
Sometimes I'm more focused on women but sometimes I start fantasizing about men, I start cruising on apps for guys to talk to but finding one that I like is hard.

I resist against it a lot. I've always fantasized about guys tho.

I went to a guy sauna once a number of years ago but just stayed in the room alone looking at porn.

I've built it up so much in my mind.

I started seeing this girl recently so part of me wants to try sucking dick before things go anywhere. I wish I could ignore it but it's kinda hard to ignore the raging hardon when I think about sucking cock lol.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 9 May 2022, 01:58
by McTaggartfan
poppy wrote:Sometimes I'm more focused on women but sometimes I start fantasizing about men, I start cruising on apps for guys to talk to but finding one that I like is hard.

I resist against it a lot. I've always fantasized about guys tho.

I went to a guy sauna once a number of years ago but just stayed in the room alone looking at porn.

I've built it up so much in my mind.

I started seeing this girl recently so part of me wants to try sucking dick before things go anywhere. I wish I could ignore it but it's kinda hard to ignore the raging hardon when I think about sucking cock lol.


Why resist it? Just embrace the desire and, perhaps, when you're not so focused on resisting it all the time, it won't come up as much.

In any case, the subject of the thread makes this sound like it's going to be a fun 18th century-style treatise on being bisexual.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 9 May 2022, 02:20
by poppy
I don't know, I've always dated women and now the more I think about dating men the more I think about being more out I worry about how people will perceive me I guess?

I'd like to get married one day but I worry about this nagging fantasy I have. Is it just a fantasy? Do I really want to suck a guy off and get fucked just to see what it's like?

In my fantasies I definitely lean more toward the bottom scale, sucking cock and recently of getting fucked, facials, swallowing.

It's hard to find a guy to talk about it with.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 9 May 2022, 03:35
by poppy
I always look for younger guys but maybe I should look for someone older.

I've talked to a couple twinky dudes but didn't like that they had small dicks.

I worry about doing too much at once. Like having a three way and getting fucked ad letting them cum all over my face. It's like I tell myself I'm just trying it once so I should just go for it. But what if I love cock?

Fuck lol why does that turn me on so much? Am I just lying to myself about wanting to be with women?

I would miss women if I was gay, I feel bad that I want to have a girlfriend but also want to have sex with men.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 9 May 2022, 03:38
by poppy
Maybe if I did it I wouldn't think about it so much?

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 11 May 2022, 02:36
by poppy
Think I found a cute guy nearby. I hope I like it. I'm expecting to like it.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 11 May 2022, 02:51
by poolerboy0077
You mean, like, bilingual?

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 11 May 2022, 04:15
by poppy
It was hard for me to admit I want to suck cock. I feel pretty gay now.

If this dude picks me up I'm gonna let him fuck me.

I'm pretty excited to give a blowjob.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 11 May 2022, 04:17
by poppy
What's the best position for a newbie?

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 12 May 2022, 03:35
by Jzone
Being bi does not mean being unfaithful to someone of either (traditional, binary) gender — or yourself. It simply means you have the benefit of potentially being attracted to almost the entire human population. As you suggested — don't think about it so much. Notice who you are attracted to, pursue a relationship if you feel so moved, enjoy every stage of that pursuit, rinse and repeat.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 12 May 2022, 22:19
by poppy
Im thinking about just going to steamworks and hanging out.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 16 May 2022, 04:07
by Suehiz
I hear you I don't even identify as bi I'm not attracted to guys I like girls but every now and then I get the urge to suck a cock so l do that's all I want though just a quick anonymous suck don't care what you look like don't want to know your names as long as you're clean just let me suck it off and I'll be done and on my way Don't know why just had a penis fixation long as I can remember

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 16 May 2022, 20:10
by poppy
It's interesting how things change as I talk about it with people. Like when it's something I'm trying to ignore when I'm trying(unsuccessfully) to hook up I'm pretty forward and am like I'm new and want to try it let's fuck.

It's not working, I'm now just asking to hang out and smoke weed.

Re: On being bi

Unread postPosted: 1 June 2022, 00:44
by CaffeineMan
So I don’t know your age but please listen.

I’m 46 years old and only recently came to terms with my own desires. They were always there and amidst two marriages, I never acted on them until after my second divorce

I like sex with men. I like sex with women. Gay sex is not a bad thing nor is straight sex. It’s only bad if you refuse to live your life fully - who wants to die wishing he did something he didn’t have the balls to do?

I know i don’t. I’ve again, only recently begun to acknowledge my bisexuality - even came out to a few select friends- the sooner you let go (and this doesn’t mean you even have to hook up), you’ll feel a lot better about it. At the very least, know that it’s normal.