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Feelings for someone else

Unread postPosted: 25 January 2021, 18:07
by Grounded.space
I’ve been in a difficult situation lately- I’ve been with my boyfriend for two + years and told him and myself that he was the one (our relationship is online) I was so madly in love with him but recently my feelings started to fade out. Not being physically there for someone is hard especially when they’re from another country. Also with him- my needs aren’t being met. A few months ago I met someone who seems to meet my needs and his love seems so genuine and pure- I fell for him and I’d love to be with him- he also lives in the same country. I started by asking my boyfriend how he feels about our relationship and he loves me just the same. I don’t really know what to do- either stay with someone I fell out for- or risk it for someone who meets my needs and I have fallen for?

Re: Feelings for someone else

Unread postPosted: 25 January 2021, 18:32
by René
Hang on, does guy 2 live in the same country as you or the same country as guy 1?
What was the plan to eventually end up living in the same place? (I assume there was one?)
How often have you been meeting up in person?

We need more details, basically.

Re: Feelings for someone else

Unread postPosted: 25 January 2021, 20:41
by Grounded.space
Guy 2 lives in the same country as me. I’ve only seen the first guy once and yes we were planning on living together- but also with this pandemic the borders to other countries are closed- I would be able to see the second guy a lot more often.