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Highschool Crush

Unread postPosted: 8 May 2021, 07:15
by ARVIL02
I need some advices for making move to my highschool crush. I am 25 years old now and all sudden my highschool crush poped up on Instagram. I would like to say Hi and possibly make move this time but I do not know what to say...

I met this guy when I was in highschool, my school was really huge (around 3000 students was attending) so we rarely see him at school but we went to same party often so I saw him there. We spoke only few times and were not friend. but that was love at first sight.
One night we were at party and talked like hours about us to get know each other and he told me he is bi-sexual. ( I was out that I'm gay in my HS) but I was too shy to make a move so nothing happen that time.

But today his instagram showed up all sudden, so I really wanna message him hopefully to go on date.

I would like to get an advice for "What should I say in first message and how should I carry conversation?" I just don't wanna be weriedo but dont wanna miss a chance at the same time.

Re: Highschool Crush

Unread postPosted: 8 May 2021, 17:46
by Black_Boy_Philly
Well what are your fears around reaching out?

Re: Highschool Crush

Unread postPosted: 8 May 2021, 20:21
by ARVIL02
Well… it has been 7 or 8years since we graduate high school, and we haven’t talked at all. So I just don’t know how to start conversation and what if he doesn’t remember me, what should I say… those things are in my head…

Re: Highschool Crush

Unread postPosted: 8 May 2021, 20:23
by ARVIL02
Especially, I don’t know how should I say in first message and carry conversations in case he doesn’t remember me…
So I just wanted know how other people do if they were in this situation….

Re: Highschool Crush

Unread postPosted: 9 May 2021, 22:50
by Black_Boy_Philly
I say just start with hello. If it seems he doesn't remember you, jog his memory. Pretty low risk.

Re: Highschool Crush

Unread postPosted: 24 May 2021, 11:50
by Petite
ARVIL02 wrote:I need some advices for making move to my highschool crush. I am 25 years old now and all sudden my highschool crush poped up on Instagram. I would like to say Hi and possibly make move this time but I do not know what to say...

I met this guy when I was in highschool, my school was really huge (around 3000 students was attending) so we rarely see him at school but we went to same party often so I saw him there. We spoke only few times and were not friend. but that was love at first sight.
One night we were at party and talked like hours about us to get know each other and he told me he is bi-sexual. ( I was out that I'm gay in my HS) but I was too shy to make a move so nothing happen that time.

But today his instagram showed up all sudden, so I really wanna message him hopefully to go on date.

I would like to get an advice for "What should I say in first message and how should I carry conversation?" I just don't wanna be weriedo but dont wanna miss a chance at the same time.

Does he live close to you? You could keep it simple like hey how are you it's been ages I'm in the area let me know if you want to catch up for a beer. Suggest a place close to where he lives for a catch-up to make it easy for him.